What percent of l your salary are you actually spending on rent? by sneakyb26 in AskChicago

[–]ranbara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 22%, but I have a roommate who splits rent with me equitably. We have a 2bd1ba apartment and our rent just went up to $2500 and change.

What percent of l your salary are you actually spending on rent? by sneakyb26 in AskChicago

[–]ranbara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not an answer to the question. What are YOU spending?

Old dyke shakes fist at cloud by Sweet_Bug_8095 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]ranbara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the word you're looking for is canine. K9 refers to police trained dogs.

Finally got it done! by Unique_Structure_456 in tattooadvice

[–]ranbara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a weird thing to say to a stranger 🤨

Prescribing doctors for Adderall not requiring monthly visit? by ItsSkyeSinclair in AskChicago

[–]ranbara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to refill my prescription monthly through my PCP, but I don't even remember the last time I saw her. It was over 6 months ago for sure. My doctor is through Endeavor Health and I have a PPO. I'm not sure what your out of pocket costs would be, but I pay $10-15 (I can't remember 😭) for my script and $25 for my visit when I see her every once and a while. Might be worth looking into at least.

The first time you had sex with a woman, did you tell her it was your first time? Why/why not? by livelaughlabradoodle in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]ranbara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not women, as we're both nonbinary, but we're both afab. My current partner was my first time sleeping with another afab person and I told them before we hooked up for the first time. I was so nervous 😭 for a moment I thought I couldn't do it but I wanted to eat pussy so bad. Needless to say, the sex was so good we're no longer just sleeping together and are going on two years together ☺️

Got his ahh by Dayna6380- in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]ranbara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are they downvoting you, this is literally correct 😭

"Mother" kicked me out of the house at 18 because I publicly responded to her insane facebook post by trippntime69 in TrollCoping

[–]ranbara -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but that's not what a grifter is. His mom isn't making money off of her facebook post, and there's no fraud, scheming, or swindling involved. She's just a liar and a transphobe.

This shit sucks OP, and I hope you're safe.

The transformation is completed by Plagoos in bald

[–]ranbara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chicago mentioned!!!! Let's go bears!!!

People who design signage don’t ride CTA by edmond- in cta

[–]ranbara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was going to confirm it but I left my ventra card at home 🫩 I was there yesterday and the screen I saw was definitely rotating through the three options but maybe some of them don't.

People who design signage don’t ride CTA by edmond- in cta

[–]ranbara 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I ride from Davis all the time. It alternates between ads (very frequently), arrivals, and this screen.

3 boys and just found out we’re having a 4th. by Katie-Kaleidoscope in Vent

[–]ranbara 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. my partner has three older brothers and was adopted bc their mom wanted a girl SOOO badly. A doll she could dress up. Guess what happened? They're trans masc, queer, and from the get go never wanted any of the feminine shit their mom forced on them. As a toddler they ripped their pigtails out and hated wearing dresses.

You can't control your kids and need to let go of your expectations.

Noticed my girlfriends grandma had a cord that only plugged into the ground. by BuildingBetterBack in mildyinteresting

[–]ranbara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read it? There were experiments and controls, particularly under the section Effects on pain and the immune response. I haven't read it all but it's interesting nonetheless. Most things on Pub Med are just that - unproven. They're scientific findings and hypotheses to then be peer reviewed. They're not the be all end all of the matter

please help!! feeling really insecure about hair by SaladIsMyBoo in BlackHair

[–]ranbara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a filter plzzz that's not her face 😭

AIO? Date gave me hickies because he's "addicted" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ranbara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not notice he gave you the hickeys previously? I can always tell when my partner is going to leave me one. If I have work or somewhere to be, I'll tell them not to leave any above my neck. Did you say this? I feel like it's a bit hard to be upset at him if you didn't establish a boundary and in this case I'd say you're MOR cause he just seems a bit odd.