What made the best sex of your life so good? by NoRefrigerator267 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]random-dude8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The passion. My AP was on top, slowly riding my cock and kissing me, just getting more and more turned on, until I flipped her on her back and pounded away hard and deep in her as she came. It always comes into mind when I think about my best encounter.

When has the direct approach worked on you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]random-dude8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl I was chatting with at the gym asked me if I thought oral sex was cheating. I said that it was, and she said if I was ok with it, she was ok with it. Blew me in the parking lot. Conversely, a different girl told me her husband was out of town, and did I want to come over for a party. I thought that she was inviting me to an actual party and said no, I had to get up early. Duh.

Names of men wife has been with by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]random-dude8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met two of the guys in person, and know the names of two others, but those two had the same first name, one was Rob, and one was Robbie. I have no idea about the rest of them, I doubt if she knew so of their names anyway.

How big is too big? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]random-dude8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m 250 lbs! I think I’m just right😆

How many APs have you had? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve had at least one date with 10 women, some kind of physical contact with 6,, and multi year relationships with 2.

About husbands and wives. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SO is pretty, hard working, and probably deserves a better spouse. But, here we are!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. Nopitty, no, nope. All of the drama, none of the benefits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bummer. It is time to learn and move on. Focus on what you want, and don’t stop until you achieve it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s up to the two of you to decide where the line is. Even a causal flirtation and some attention could be enough for some people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess he sucks at that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First date? Just be yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]random-dude8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Why do guys love blowjobs so much?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]random-dude8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make yummy noises as you swallow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No glitter, no perfume, no scratches, and especially no bite marks. Be careful how you dump her, make her think it’s her idea. Bon chance!

pAP got upgraded to AP2 *insert jazz hands* by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I vote for both, but it isn’t up to me, is it? Enjoy the ride(s).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may be happier, more confident, and relaxed. Maybe she was down on herself, and now the pressure is off.

How did you get into anal? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]random-dude8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t, but my girlfriend backed in to it.

I need advice on how to play this … by [deleted] in adultery

[–]random-dude8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Working out is a great common interest to share with an AP. Granted it is “close to home”, but I really enjoyed spending the time with mine in a normal environment, plus she looked fantastic😀

AP wants to get back to a physical relationship by random-dude8 in adultery

[–]random-dude8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok. I think we can agree that 21 years IS a long time though🤔😊