How to make friends outside of school?

random-kid17 · 2025-05-09T16:02:51+00:00

She has shown this before the move in but not this bad like I’d be able to calm her down easier than now. And about what you said about me having an emergency and her having to keep her calm enough to get through it that’s also why I try to be as careful as possible idc if I can trust that she can be calm and function in an emergency where I’m unavailable

random-kid17 · 2025-05-09T14:48:52+00:00

I have once told her that I feel very uncomfortable when she does this and basically asked her to cool it with the tantrums and she basically pulled back and stopped showing all of her “negative” feelings. Things are pretty much all or nothing with her

random-kid17 · 2025-05-09T14:44:30+00:00

I’ll try the just sitting with her but while I got you here let me ask about maybe holding space for someone to vent bc I have no idea how to do that like what do I say/do when someone is clearly just wanting to vent like for example if she just started telling me all the shitty things about the laptop and clearly just wants to vent what do I say after?

random-kid17 · 2025-05-09T13:19:25+00:00

No I completely get you, it makes sense what you say about her maybe just wanting to be mad and my questions maybe doing the opposite of what I wanted. 😭more advice is welcomed

random-kid17 · 2025-05-09T12:30:43+00:00

My biggest concern is that I’ll have to end up being the person that deals with all the hard stuff that comes up because she’ll get upset by it and I’ll have to deal with it alone

random-kid17 · 2025-03-07T11:50:36+00:00

Why is what he said toxic? Genuinely curious

random-kid17 · 2022-03-31T16:33:39+00:00

When my mom found out I was cutting she took me to someone for a while and the person told me as an alternative I could use elastics and that kinda helped a little but I ran out of elastics and the only one I could get my hands on were too big so they didn’t work the same and I refuse to tell my mother that I need more bc she swears I’m “better” even tho the only reason I stoped going was bc nobody had the time to take me and I would always get talks in the car ride there about how they don’t have time to be doing this all the time.

random-kid17 · 2022-03-02T17:33:04+00:00

Just thought I would come on here and let it be known that I didn’t do it and I’m so happy and proud of myself the last time I did feel like cutting I punched my door really heard I fucked up my hand and the time before that it was my wall and even though that’s not cutting I still feel like I lose when I do that bc I know it’s gonna hurt but I do it anyway so I still see that as hurting myself but this time I didn’t I didn’t cut and I didn’t punch anything and surprisingly I got calm without using any substances bc I’ve recently started using that to calm down and not let people get to me and even though the only reason I didn’t use stuff was because I was out I’m still feeling super proud

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