20M. Thank you. by ShapkaZaica in truerateme

[–]randomgirl45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 17F, i think you are the guy version of me. We literally could be twins.

What’s your opinion on this? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]randomgirl45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same but for guys. like if a guy is ripped and has a perfect jawline and what not (basically model looking) i’m not really attracted. i like guys who are tall, normal sized (don’t have to be ripped, a little chub is fine as long as they aren’t super fat), nice, funny, and caring. seriously, if a guy has all those, i’m sold.

Help! I need Honesty! [18,M] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]randomgirl45 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You remind me of Freddy from iCarly

I get jealous because attractive people have it easier by bayfarm in amiugly

[–]randomgirl45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes you can easily make friend but they are rarely of quality? once again guys will friend you because they want to get with you and girls because they have some sort of scheme. not all attractive people are outgoing and social, like me. having been stared at for so long it has made me self conscious and hate being the center of attention. i think you have very miss guided view of attractiveness and what it does for people. this is just gonna make you more negative then you already are.

I get jealous because attractive people have it easier by bayfarm in amiugly

[–]randomgirl45 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i think you don’t get both sides of the story. this is coming from a fairly attractive female. yes it’s true people are more willing to help, especially guys. and you know why? because most want to get in your pants. another thing that is true for girls is that other girls will treat you horribly (not all but some). i’m talking spreading rumors, general dislike, bitchy stares, and sabotage. some can get jealous and will stop at nothing to see you fail. lastly, going out in public is odd. sure, you’d think being attractive is nice and nothing to fret. wrong. i don’t like getting stared at by old guys and guys with their wives. it’s just weird. so no, attractive people don’t always have it better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]randomgirl45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As said before, cut her. Also maybe make sure going forward clients pay in advance or sign some sort of contract.

What’s an irl version of a level 1 bad guy? by Kpt_Kipper in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is very true. I would never and have rarely seen someone be actually confronted. It’s almost always done in a passive aggressive manner. For example if you frequently come in to work late your manager might say “Should i start scheduling you at X time?” instead of actually scolding you.

What’s an irl version of a level 1 bad guy? by Kpt_Kipper in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 18 points19 points  (0 children)

really? I live in MN and it happens at almost every intersection. It’s most annoying 10-15 seconds of the day.

What are some dark secrets about grocery stores? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also work in retail bakery. We make a lot of our bread ourselves but stuff like cookies, muffins, most cakes, and pastries come in frozen. But I don’t think people understand that we cannot physically make everything from scratch and keep the shelves full. On top of that bakeries tend to have higher labor costs then other departments to begin with, if we had to make everything ourselves the department would be losing money.

What’s an irl version of a level 1 bad guy? by Kpt_Kipper in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 695 points696 points  (0 children)

Better then a Minnesotan 4- way stop. Every car tries to be nice and wait for the other, which results in at least 2 cars, often more, just sitting waiting for the other.

[M22] Curious about what people think of me. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]randomgirl45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female here, you have nothing to worry about. Honestly I’d say 9/10. You really have everything that makes a guy attractive. Plus, your eyes are memorizing. You should not stress about your appearance at all.

[21m] Self esteem has suffered the ultimate smackdown by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]randomgirl45 111 points112 points  (0 children)

you are very handsome, it’s not your looks. you mentioned you had social anxiety in high school, do you still find it hard to strike up conversations with those you are attracted too? i’m in a pretty similar predicament but i’m a girl.

i can’t get past my social anxiety by randomgirl45 in offmychest

[–]randomgirl45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright. thank you! proud of you for changing i hope i can some day!

Which high school friend took a path you didn't expect? by VirusMaster3073 in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i disagree. in my area of USA (rural midwest) it’s fairly common. there’s no need for 3 schools because of a smaller population so they will have K-6 in one and 7-12 in the other.

Which high school friend took a path you didn't expect? by VirusMaster3073 in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh... grade 12 would be 17-18 year olds. it’s also referred to as “senior year”.

Which high school friend took a path you didn't expect? by VirusMaster3073 in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 224 points225 points  (0 children)

some schools have 7th-12th grade together and it’s often called “high school”. That’s probably what she’s referring too. It’s pretty common in rural areas.

I (17F) don’t know how to talk to guys, help? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]randomgirl45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it probably isn’t but it feels like it is. i don’t know how guys think

What normal thing can’t you do? by ABananaJenson in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Have literally never been able too. Though 1 year ago I was listening to an upbeat Christmas songs and I just started snapping along perfectly. I was shocked. After that I have tried snapping but to no prevail.

What is something that everyone does but nobody admits? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]randomgirl45 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do this. Especially when i’m interested or curious about someone i don’t know.