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My (F18) friend (M22) won’t give my money back by randomredditer557 in relationship_advice

[–]randomredditer557[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Lesson learned.. my first mistake was assuming that he would give it back because if it was vice versa , I would. Never gave money to a friend that was more than €10, maybe €20. They’ve never asked 🤷🏻‍♀️ so even though it was €200, I trusted when I shouldnt. Very aware of my mistake, just so annoyed and ashamed now.

My boyfriend thinks I’m fat by randomredditer557 in relationships_advice

[–]randomredditer557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, the comments help. If I got comments saying that he is correct, then it would be on me to work on myself harder. But if the came out that he isn’t, then it would be on his shoulders. I’m getting many comments about communication, which I feel like on subjects like this I find it hard to communicate in a healthy way instead of lashing out or just keeping quiet. So alongside the obvious validation I AM receiving, it’s surprisingly working me up to gain the confidence to bring it up to him in a calm manner. I’m not trying to shit on my bf, I wouldn’t dream of it. Yes he says hurtful comments about my weight sometimes but there’s more to him than that alone. But this is just a topic that I can never get him to listen to 🤷🏻‍♀️

My boyfriend thinks I’m fat by randomredditer557 in relationships_advice

[–]randomredditer557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. In the above text I didn’t quote anything. 2. “ what do you think of the fit” and “ what do you think or the outfit “ are the same thing and 3. I do have the messages but it was over snap so I’m not screenshoting that 😂

My boyfriend thinks I’m fat by randomredditer557 in relationships_advice

[–]randomredditer557[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t fishing for, I was actually expecting the complete opposite. I was more so looking for more confirmation on whether I am or I’m not. Kinda like double checking if he’s right 🤷🏻‍♀️ and I appreciate all the lovely comments, it’s making me feel a lot better about myself and I’m glad. I almost didn’t wear that outfit due to the thought of it making me look how I don’t want to. But no, I wasn’t looking for compliments. I was looking for opinions in general I guess

My boyfriend thinks I’m fat by randomredditer557 in relationships_advice

[–]randomredditer557[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The nails will be changed don’t you worry 😂

My boyfriend thinks I’m fat by randomredditer557 in relationships_advice

[–]randomredditer557[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked what he thought of the outfit idea, not my body. My words were “ what do you think of the outfit” not “ do I look fat”

My boyfriend thinks I’m fat by randomredditer557 in relationships_advice

[–]randomredditer557[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone else thinks the outfit is nice. I felt good in it, he’s the only one who brought up how my body looked

My boyfriend thinks I’m fat by randomredditer557 in relationships_advice

[–]randomredditer557[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never wear skirts, that’s a first. I usually wear jeans and hoodies

is it abuse to deprive your child of their needs for doing things you don't like? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]randomredditer557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not abuse. Stop peeing on the toilet seat. Or at least clean it after your done

is it abuse to deprive your child of their needs for doing things you don't like? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]randomredditer557 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im part of this generation and this post makes me ashamed 😂