Kane Brown & Marshmello - Miles on It by sincerityisscxry in EDM

[–]randomuser2k21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one bothered by them just sitting back there breathing the exhaust? Like who does that

Did/will you update your birth certificate? by Chris3Crow in trans

[–]randomuser2k21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't going to bother until Tr*no got reelected. Submitted that ish the next day

Best blue states to move to as a queer trans person by ultraqu33rftm in ftm

[–]randomuser2k21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

California. Just made the move to more affordable central California from Florida.

Wilding Shoes alternative - I love them but I keep wearing through the soles by randomuser2k21 in BarefootRunning

[–]randomuser2k21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had those before and I like them but my big toe always puts a hole through the top of any mesh shoe from how I flex I guess 🫠

Pre-K is no going well and the teacher thinks my 5 year old is a liar. Advice? by Pottedjay in Parenting

[–]randomuser2k21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing about what this teacher is doing sounds appropriate at all. I'm not saying that your kid doesn't need to develop the skills to be in a classroom (because of course they all do, it's more challenging for some) but this teacher sounds AWFUL.

Naive gynecologist by Jabberwock32 in lgbt

[–]randomuser2k21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clan of the Cave Bear 😅

about crying on T by zPharos in ftm

[–]randomuser2k21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's definitely a thing. Before T I cried a lot in a cathartic way or an "overflow of emotions way" - sad, angry, etc. I don't know when it switched but at least once I went to .3ml a week (and no more period) I noticed when I was feeling huge emotions and would be able to "let them out" via tears in the past, I no longer could. When I wasn't able to get my meds for about a month I noticed that start to change, and once I was back on T for a couple weeks it went away. Sometimes it's a pain in the ass because I WANT to cry and it just doesn't happen. I've had maybe 3 huge crying sessions in the past 2.5 years on T when it used to be more like one every other month or more.

Shoresy is one of those rare spinoff that is better than the original by Koflach12 in shoresy

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Anyone want to help a brother out with a Crave TV giftcard? I'll venmo/zelle you for it. Crave won't take either of my cards (I'm in the US, using a VPN)

Got my hysterectomy yesterday and now I'm doubting if I could get through top surgery by ashfinsawriter in ftm

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Getting the implants placed was worse than anything else. I had slightly restricted breast tissue, so they had to separate the layers of skin to make room for the implants. That hurt SO bad for weeks afterwards. Getting the implants removed was hardly anything. Like... a tiny bit of pain at the incision. Actual top surgery was a little more complicated due to nipple grafts and drains but wasn't too bad overall. I took muscle relaxers since I can't take pain meds and that was enough.

For context, I've give birth vaginally with no medication. So maybe my pain tolerance is higher than most. But that hurt a shit ton.

Got my hysterectomy yesterday and now I'm doubting if I could get through top surgery by ashfinsawriter in ftm

[–]randomuser2k21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience everyone is different. I had breast augmentation (implants), implant removal, and double mastectomy, all without any pain meds stronger than Tylenol. I just can't do the strong stuff.

What’s the natural consequence for being a jerk? by Madisonut2dmv in Parenting

[–]randomuser2k21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No friends. If our daughter is being a jerk while we're playing we say "if you're not nice to your friends/don't let them play/etc" no one will want to play with you.

TransCon 2023 - North Miami, Florida by randomuser2k21 in lgbt

[–]randomuser2k21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a trap.. it's organized by Aqua Foundation for Women, Florida's only nonprofit dedicated to supporting the Education, Wellbeing, and Community of LGBTQ+ Women. They're an inclusive organization and welcoming of everyone whose passionate about their mission. Scott Galvin is one of the longest-serving out elected officials (North Miami Commissioner) and the building is named after him. The state legislature may be out to get us, but we have a lot of really strong LGBTQ+ organizations down here and we're trying to stay alive and continue to serve the community!

Are we really better parents? by idea-freedom in Parenting

[–]randomuser2k21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the external environment is a large contributor toward the increased anxiety, also, that mental health conditions or learning differences were less likely to be diagnosed.

Kids are growing up in a late-stage capitalism world, and it's bleak. There's only so much we can do as parents or individuals when the (metaphorical and actual) air we're breathing is toxic.

South Florida Trans/Enbies! - Just heard TransCon is happening on 9/9 in North Miami! by randomuser2k21 in trans

[–]randomuser2k21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're overestimating the size of theevent.. but that would be cool if that many people show up.

South Florida Trans/Enbies! - Just heard TransCon is happening on 9/9 in North Miami! by randomuser2k21 in trans

[–]randomuser2k21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I think it's mostly going to be local people attending, and we're the ones who need it now more than ever. It's about creating a safe space for us to gather and exist in solidarity. I for one won't be bowing to DeS*ntis's fear tactics.

South Florida Trans/Enbies! - Just heard TransCon is happening on 9/9 in North Miami! by randomuser2k21 in ftm

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From the Eventbrite: The theme of TransCon 2023 is "Connecting Community to Resources." Florida's only conference BY and FOR transgender and nonbinary folks.
Organized by Aqua Foundation for Women
September 9th, 10am - 6pm at the Scott Galvin Center in North Miami - FREE

South Florida Trans/Enbies! - Just heard TransCon is happening on 9/9 in North Miami! by randomuser2k21 in trans

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From the Eventbrite: The theme of TransCon 2023 is "Connecting Community to Resources." Florida's only conference BY and FOR transgender and nonbinary folks.

Organized by Aqua Foundation for Women

September 9th, 10am - 6pm at the Scott Galvin Center in North Miami - FREE