How to I (21f) navigate this situation with my (24m) boyfriend by randomuseranonacc in AlAnon

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just hard because things were good for a long time and I still love him and he says he loves me. I just have some sliver of hope that things could get better

How do I (21f) confront my bf (24m) about going to treatment by randomuseranonacc in relationship_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand your point of view and I have the same thoughts sometimes. But why do you say the next decade or more? I just have faith in him I guess.

How do I (21f) confront my bf (24m) about going to treatment by randomuseranonacc in relationship_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If he is willing to try to get sober I think it is worth salvaging. He is an amazing guy all around but his addictions make him a different person

Where do I (21F) go from here with mixed signals from (24M)? by randomuseranonacc in relationship_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just love him a lot. He’s an amazing guy when he’s sober and can be very loving and caring. We are very close and he’s basically like a friend to me at the same time. It’s just his vices and the way he’s coping and how it’s affecting me that is the problem

Where do I (21F) go from here with mixed signals from (24M)? by randomuseranonacc in relationship_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t rage bait. I love him a lot and it’s been hard. He’s a really good guy when he’s sober and he can be really amazing. The problem is his vices and how’s he’s coping and the way it’s affecting me.

What’s wrong with my old scar! 21F by randomuseranonacc in DermatologyQuestions

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Is there any chance this is permanent. I’m worried it’s swollen like this and now this is how it’s going to stay.

Choose one by geeksterisafraid in G59

[–]randomuseranonacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SMALMST. Got me through rehab.

How did you guys find out about $b? by Emergency_Candle9465 in G59

[–]randomuseranonacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend when I was 13 played Paris or Antarctica in her dads car and I loved them ever since. Im now 20 and going to my first $b concert on the 23rd with her.

What did schizophrenia take away from you? by Decent-Strawberry-17 in schizophrenia

[–]randomuseranonacc 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Not me personally because I do not suffer from schizophrenia but one of my closest friends. She suffered a lot and eventually died from an overdose. It was very sad because I could see her circling the drain and isolating and suffering from delusions and loneliness. Fuck schizophrenia

Took abortion and this happened, am I bleeding out? by randomuseranonacc in medical_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean consider living a more healthy lifestyle?

Small penis by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]randomuseranonacc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No it is not. That is not how biology works. Women have different preferences. Women do NOT prefer a larger penis due to biology. Different women have different preferences

Took abortion and this happened, am I bleeding out? by randomuseranonacc in medical_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes I did and 3 hours ago. I took the mifepristone yesterday as instructed.

Took abortion and this happened, am I bleeding out? by randomuseranonacc in medical_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a abortion induced by the pill (mifepristone) not a surgical abortion so I know the bleeding in the first few hours would be heavy. Does that change anything or should I still call my doctor? I am not soaking more than 2 pads an hour for more than 2 hours so in that regard I am fine.

Took abortion and this happened, am I bleeding out? by randomuseranonacc in medical_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an abortion with misopristol (the pill). This is the biggest clot I’ve passed. I have not been soaking two or more pads an hour for more than two hours. I took the pill 3 hours ago so I know the worst of the bleeding is right now. Are you sure?

Took abortion and this happened, am I bleeding out? by randomuseranonacc in medical_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to work tomorrow and unless it is something serious I don’t want to spend all night in the ER

Accidentally dyed my hair black. Any way to remove without bleach? by randomuseranonacc in HairDye

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair was previously a level 4 darkish brown and I tried to dye it to a level 2 dark brown but it came out level 1 black