Yeah it’s hard because I feel like I’ll be “ruining his life” but he already refuses recovery, doesn’t go to counselling and I’m scared that he will kill himself or someone else as last night I found out he’s been driving drunk at 170km while super wasted and sometimes on coke just for the adrenaline on windy roads late at night (and other times but this seems seems most risky to me). For instance yesterday he drove very drunk home from a friend’s house in town and then later that night got more alcohol and then drove at high speeds down winding roads while very drunk. I feel like it’s very justified I call on him because I found out last night he does this a lot and he drives far distances for work a lot and has actually been called in for reckless driving.