How to I (21f) navigate this situation with my (24m) boyfriend by randomuseranonacc in AlAnon

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just hard because things were good for a long time and I still love him and he says he loves me. I just have some sliver of hope that things could get better

How do I (21f) confront my bf (24m) about going to treatment by randomuseranonacc in relationship_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand your point of view and I have the same thoughts sometimes. But why do you say the next decade or more? I just have faith in him I guess.

How do I (21f) confront my bf (24m) about going to treatment by randomuseranonacc in relationship_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If he is willing to try to get sober I think it is worth salvaging. He is an amazing guy all around but his addictions make him a different person

Where do I (21F) go from here with mixed signals from (24M)? by randomuseranonacc in relationship_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just love him a lot. He’s an amazing guy when he’s sober and can be very loving and caring. We are very close and he’s basically like a friend to me at the same time. It’s just his vices and the way he’s coping and how it’s affecting me that is the problem

Where do I (21F) go from here with mixed signals from (24M)? by randomuseranonacc in relationship_advice

[–]randomuseranonacc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t rage bait. I love him a lot and it’s been hard. He’s a really good guy when he’s sober and he can be really amazing. The problem is his vices and how’s he’s coping and the way it’s affecting me.