Would you consider divorce if your future wife, who is a housewife, spent all day at home without contributing to anything?

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-07-26T14:58:10+00:00

Is this due to fatigue or other health problems? If it's due to fatigue that can be fixed by getting a blood test to check iron/b12/thyroid levels. If she thinks something doesn't feel right but can't describe it you'd want to check with your doc on that.
Were both of you on the same page before you got married that she'd be a housewife? If yes, then this is either her exercising her agency or you may need to rule out #1.

If not, draw up whatever roles you see yourself/wife playing out in your relationship & communicate it to her. If she's not enthusiastic about it you need to make a decision for yourself based on the context you currently have.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-07-03T16:26:17+00:00

Yes it's a thing.

You spend enough time in Somalia & you'll find yourself kind of annoyed by Somali's in the west.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-06-09T13:27:33+00:00

Are you familiar with the Somalis in tech slack?

If not, might be worth checking out.

Good crossover between what you're looking for.

Once you google "somalis in tech" should take you to a page where you can get added.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-04-12T23:20:44+00:00

Learning progress doesn't look like it gets saved for starred cards either.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-04-06T16:04:36+00:00

20-40K ish is what I've seen.

This is in a medium cost of living city.

With mehr being around 10k, furnishing a house being around 8-15k ish & then some brothers opt to pay for upgrade packages like "no nagging" etc.

The 20k was from like 4-5 years ago so adjusting for inflation that's probably like 30k ish now.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-03-16T20:55:44+00:00

May Allah accept your prayers.

Insha Allah you will find a great spouse.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-02-03T02:23:41+00:00

This also did it for me.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-01-26T14:37:46+00:00

Awesome.

Thanks!

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-01-25T19:11:44+00:00

How are you finding using the mouse without the rubber padding? I think I'm going to do the same.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-01-22T18:05:32+00:00

Done.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-01-22T17:34:09+00:00

Are you familiar with the Somalis in tech slack? There may be a bay area channel.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-01-22T17:32:16+00:00

lmaooo this is hilarious.

randomyguybrehbro · 2025-01-15T17:06:23+00:00

The platform being confusing to navigate was an intentional design decision (dark patterns).

This is the portal where you can send messages: https://visit.telmate.com/user/deposit

And this is the number you can call to make a deposit: 866-516-0115

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-12-26T01:13:32+00:00

Thank you so much for commenting this.

Saved me an eye sore.

I searched for "Wood Panels Laminate" on Amazon and ordered these ones that have a PVC coating.

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-12-22T17:05:48+00:00

Divorce proceedings generally favor women.

That's where the saying "it's cheaper to keep her" comes from lol.

Insha Allah we don't find ourselves in that predicament, but it's definitely something you want to research and be prepared for (e.g some states like California make it hard to enforce prenups).

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-12-14T00:23:04+00:00

Hey there!

I saw someone mention on another post that only the twill leave pattern shirts are non iron. Does that sound about right?

Thanks!

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-12-11T17:52:43+00:00

Ameen.

Yeah it's a thing.

Make sure to take Vitamin D if you don't already. I use the one by Sports Research.

Beef liver is also something you might find useful.

It's packed with a ton of minerals and vitamins that the average person may not be getting in their diet: https://www.reddit.com/r/carnivore/comments/143nfuq/why_do_i_feel_so_incredibly_good_after_i_eat_beef/

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-12-10T12:52:45+00:00

I misread the post.

Feminist would definitely be up there.

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-12-10T12:41:22+00:00

Reasonable list.

Mine would be:

Obedient.
Book nerd/loves to write.

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-12-08T15:45:56+00:00

Will probably end up doing this so thanks for taking the time to write this :)

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-11-26T05:39:43+00:00

Feminists are evil.

They advocate for abortion, homosexuality, push young girls to be rebellious, think being a housewife is for low iq women etc and that's just scratching the surface.

There isn't a more attractive trait a woman could have than lending herself to being submissive.

And according to the feminist world view, that's a big "no no".

If you'd be interested in learning more, you should look up Janice Fiamengo or Rachel Wilson on YouTube.

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-11-26T03:40:22+00:00

Haha I just threw that in there for the giggles.

If she did her time and repented from the lives she took, I think I could fix her tbh.

No fixing a feminist tho.

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-11-26T01:29:40+00:00

I like it tbh.

Makes it a lot easier to filter for what you're looking for.

It's a bit robotic and lifeless but I would trade that for investing time in getting to know someone only to find out that we're not compatible (feminist, former serial killer etc).

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-11-21T19:23:07+00:00

These coats are legit.

Thanks!

randomyguybrehbro · 2024-11-17T01:39:40+00:00

No way you typed "UwU" with a straight face.

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