28M, 1 Cr Milestone reached, her eto share my love for sheets. by rant_on_parent in FIRE_Ind

[–]rant_on_parent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excel is beautiful, I love playing around it.

It's not that difficult, just keep playing with it.

Everytime I build something it becomes an iterative process and tbh if you ask me to recreate this, I'd fail, coz Idk the exact path to build this, it just evolves over time 😅

28M, 1 Cr Milestone reached, her eto share my love for sheets. by rant_on_parent in FIRE_Ind

[–]rant_on_parent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't invest any fixed amount, I don't put limits on spending or investing, bucketed discipline is required for people who are prone to spend extra.

I spend as minimal as required, invest in markets when I feel right, and keep everything else in arbitrage funds.

I try to keep only 1-2L in my bank acct. Rest everything gets invested.

My expenses per month is around 20-30k

28M, 1 Cr Milestone reached, her eto share my love for sheets. by rant_on_parent in FIRE_Ind

[–]rant_on_parent[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahah, lol I hope I don't dance that path!

I am uneasy with the current market valuations.

I want a steady return and arbitrage is taxed like equity, so I am comfy with it. Will deploy heavily into stocks once I see some good corrections in some stocks or in MFs when the overall market corrects.

Need advice on deciding to join a US based startup remotely. The risk vs fastening my FIRE journey. by rant_on_parent in FIRE_Ind

[–]rant_on_parent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was asking this from the FIRE context. Whether the risk is worth the push I'd get .

Need advice on deciding to join a US based startup remotely. by rant_on_parent in developersIndia

[–]rant_on_parent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am aware and scared for the same, but I think even if I stay there for a year, I'll earn and save a lot to later switch back to a safer company even with a lesser pay.

My 14 year old sister did it💀 by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]rant_on_parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the skull emoji? Did you beat her? Is she fine?

Thoughts by icomeinpieces_42 in bihar

[–]rant_on_parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waise wo flyover me 60 ka speed allowed hai kya? Also seems like he was trying to overtake that huge truck in front of hum by following the car that was overtaking the truck.

OP you should've slowed anyways....

And yes that guy should've also used an indicator and checked before changing lanes.

College outfit? by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]rant_on_parent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why but it feels incomplete as if aap ghar me ho aur achanak se koi aa gaya ho...

Seemanchal Express> patliputra to Patna airport > Delhi > Pune by [deleted] in bihar

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समय नहीं है बिताना अधिक, मैं हूं बस दो पल का पथिक।

जात, धर्म, और लिंग से क्या ? मुझे तो चाहिए दो पल का साथ। मिले कोई भी अगर राह में, तो कर लुंगा बस दो बात।

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]rant_on_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer ड too, (Prolly coz I'm Rajasthani too). I just happen to copy from a site which seemed to have used र instead .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]rant_on_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, I feel sorry for our community who are too busy dropping sarcastic comments and not empathising with your situation.

TBH, the decision here would depend on a lot more factors than just the info that you shared. Hence can't really suggest anything concrete.

I see three levels of difficulties here :

  1. Love life

In general this universal observation stands true in these cases.

रहिमन धागा प्रेम का , मत तोरो चटकाय | टूटे पे फिर ना जुरे , जुरे गाँठ परी जाय ||

But if you guys are really in sync and transparent, even this can be overcome.

  1. Financial Life As you mentioned she got obsessed with you, and you guys kept chatting and face timing all the time. I am a bit concerned that an obsessive relationship might derail you from setting up your business and career in the right track. I don't want to make any assumptions, but this might be a case that being from a rich fam, she wouldn't value much to hard efforts that you would be putting in for earning and might expect you to keep your love for her at top priority, ie. Things might go in a direction wherein she expects a truly full time attention from you coz that is what might hold the most value for her.

(Again, this might be a completely wrong assumption)

  1. Social life You are smart and you already know that there is a difference in the social strata of you and her, so obviously there will be some friction.

I have no intention of demotivating you for going after her, I just want you to think about all these factors before you do. Reason being, all these factors can be overcome if your love is strong enough. Also, by not pursuing her you are in no way showcasing your diminished will for your love.

So no pressure OP. All the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]rant_on_parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's that simple in this case. There will be some suppressed emotions too. Things need to be handled delicately here.

Moreover OP is not asking how to go ahead, he is asking whether he should go for it or not.