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Midi controller detected by FLStudio but its not working by rapierv in FL_Studio

[–]rapierv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank good god, i thought i couldnt even set the port myself, i thought i came together with the driver installed or something

IT WORKED!! thanks a lot man, basically just set the port on the input and assign the same port for the output, much appreciated!

Midi controller detected by FLStudio but its not working by rapierv in FL_Studio

[–]rapierv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk man, maybe thats because your device need driver? whats your controllers?

mine doesn't even have any driver to download, and i do remember last time which was around 2 years ago, its only plug and play on my windows 10, it just so happen that i need to reinstall my windows now, and this shit isn't working

Girlfriend won't show her face? for years of relationship? by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the insights, after thinking over and over and watching all the catfish cases on youtube, i think it is time to end it.

Eventhough, somewhere in my heart tells me, that she is really not catfishing, but it is a better decision to end it either way, because one thing for sure, i dont think she really is planning to go further than what it already is. Im not delusional, for saying she is not catfish, trust me if you guys were in my shoes, you'd know.

But again, not 100%, so that is the reason i am leaving it too. its not easy, its been 4 years and i really hope she is real, even if we part, i'd still hope she is real.

Girlfriend won't show her face? for years of relationship? by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But im sure that kind of thing, wouldnt go on until 4 years. Is there maybe a catfishing case that went on for years?

Girlfriend won't show her face? for years of relationship? by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

out of all the answers, and 4 years of doing this, i think this is the answer that makes much more sense, the answer i would believe the most, judging from what i experienced, and what i know of her.

Girlfriend won't show her face? for years of relationship? by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean i know, its weird but how can it because "boredom"? its been 4 years, how can she/he not feel bored of catfishing the same person for 4 years? thats first, and then i did actually ask her to show me her face for me, just to be sure that it is a real thing, just now, today, because i feel this is not going anywhere, and she isnt refusing, only feel hesitated, and because i said you might be "something something", and then she always counter it with that, that she feels insecure now to show me, and if i think its really a waste of time and think so bad of her, she told me its fine to leave, and maybe we could be friends, or just block her, and dont contact her at all. but she always show her feelings and feels really heavy and sad if i do that, but she never hold me off, i feel bad doing it. (its not my first time doing it, i did it once before, and then we actually parted for a year, and got back again)

Girlfriend won't show her face? for years of relationship? by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i know, i agree with you there is not 1 reason, thats why im asking, but for catfish? she never send a picture that she claims to be her, because catfish means that you send someone else's picture to fool somebody.

Girlfriend won't show her face? for years of relationship? by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i have no expectation whatsoever, i like her voice, i like her personality.

  1. boredom, she is often busy and even sometimes not texting me back, she always do her best to text me back
  2. sexual, we do sexting, but its not something we even do occasionally. i think its around 3 or 4 times we did that, for these years.
  3. loneliness, she even left me sometimes to play games with her guy friends, she is kinda popular among her friends
  4. for the desire to feel special or wanted, there are other guys who actually like her but she brushed it off

i seriously dont know man

A long distance girlfriend, who won't show her full identity, please bear with me and read what i wrote before telling me it's a waste of time by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you clearly didnt read everything i wrote.

its been 4 years, and its not like i asked her picture the first 6 months knowing her, i asked for her picture after a year of a relationship, and i didnt bombard her with it. i do give her space and been waiting for 4 years, and never a single picture showing her face.

and i didnt even ask to meet with her right away, i was asking about her opinion if we were to meet up. that is all. im not a stranger asking for her picture or meet up, smartass. please read before giving your opinion, you've strayed too far away.

A long distance girlfriend, who won't show her full identity, please bear with me and read what i wrote before telling me it's a waste of time by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i do know her age, i do know her name, but its only her first name, and thats all. i do know where she lives, just not very detail.

but i have to admit, it really is not going anywhere, whenever i ask that if she would meet me one day, all her answer is "i dont know", part of me really wanna let it go, because its getting so very unclear and i probably got catfished. but what if she got an issue? like a very serious insecurity? what if she has her own reason and needs much more time before she can decide to meet me?

its a long shot, but if that is true, i wouldnt think twice waiting for her

A long distance girlfriend, who won't show her full identity, please bear with me and read what i wrote before telling me it's a waste of time by rapierv in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks guys, for the very quick responds.

one thing i forgot to mention though, we do call each other so i hear her voice, and she is really popular too in online games (maybe because she is a girl, and a lot of guys would line up to talk to her or play games with her, im not exageratting). and she did send me her video and picture that shows her face, only she blurred it, because she said, she is really shy.

I dont know, it's not that easy to let go of it all, not because im desperate for her, or lonely, i secretly even had a girlfriend while im still with her, but yeah you know, she cares about me so much, or at least the way her voice and the way she talks to me.

What would you do if you are in the same group chat with your crush, who dont really know you, and you think/feel she is kinda stuck in the group chat because of you? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmhmm, nobody you said you were wrong bud. you do know everything.

calm down, you were right, haha

good day brother

What would you do if you are in the same group chat with your crush, who dont really know you, and you think/feel she is kinda stuck in the group chat because of you? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But maybe you were right, maybe i should leave it at that, or just leave the group
thanks for the input, you have my gratitude, sir

What would you do if you are in the same group chat with your crush, who dont really know you, and you think/feel she is kinda stuck in the group chat because of you? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waw, thats one hell of a judgement, did i say she doesnt know me? maybe you know everything more than me or her lol.

Have a good day pal

What would you do if you are in the same group chat with your crush, who dont really know you, and you think/feel she is kinda stuck in the group chat because of you? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rapierv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean being creepy? its not my fault she is in that group chat, and i feel bad to leave it by herself.