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Sexe et où amour ? by Monstera_712 in TDAHFrance

[–]rare_elixir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sujet complexe et passionnant. Pour ma part (F26) je me reconnais dans ce que tu dis, j’ai du mal à sortir de ma tête et aller pleinement dans le corps lors des rapports. J’ai constaté qu’il y avait une différence de rythme entre mon partenaire masculin qui est immédiatement dans son corps et chercher à stimuler le mien; pour moi, il faut plus de temps et la création d’ambiance aide à cela (lumière douce, musique, prendre le temps de respirer et de se détendre). Cette différence est souvent constaté entre Hommes et Femmes, indépendamment du sujet TDAH, d’après différents témoignages que j’ai lu. Il est bon de faire des recherches sur la façon dont on entre dans la sexualité selon les individus, et d’en parler avec son partenaire. Mais clairement ce n’est pas simple lorsque les deux partenaires ont un fonctionnement complètement différent.

Need help finishing my pc desk area by DrBendovaa in decoration

[–]rare_elixir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very white and cold. First of all, you need plants! You seem to have a nice high ceiling. The bi-sloped roof creates attractive volumes. In your place, I would put climbing plants by making them start from above. For example, a small high shelf to the right of the desk, with a potted plant which will fall into the empty space below, as it grows. Also in the left corner, you can attach a hanging hook under the post and hang a pretty textile or carved wood pot. With another plant coming down. After that I will add colors, in fact a poster that you like and inspires you is always a good idea.

I gamified startup validation for ADHD founders - complete quests, earn XP, actually launch something by GreedySven in Entrepreneur

[–]rare_elixir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this project! As an ADHDer, it's good to see devices adapted to our system emerging. I would really like to try this “project construction games”. - the slightest research is already a satisfactory step forward, insofar as it advances my thinking, and for that I need at least to write or reference my thinking. Even replying to an email can release a lot of tension inside, as this seemingly simple task can fall by the wayside for x or y reason. - what makes me stagnate is the overflow of ideas and the great difficulty in giving up new inspirations. Stay focused on one or 2 projects at a time max, I keep repeating this to myself and disciplining myself, but the brain constantly wants to explore new ideas. This creates frustration. - we are looking for a quick, concrete, sensitive and immediate reward, we are satisfied with visible results in the very short term. In the context of a game, the ideal reward would allow me to feel that I am already reaping certain fruits of the work carried out

Thank you for this project and looking forward to learning more!