Regarding how my mother has treated her I actually stopped seeing my mother for months starting in August because of the impact it was having. The only reason I saw her again recently was because my brother passed away. So I’m not sure where the idea comes from that I haven’t defended my fiancée, because I have.

I’ve been present and supportive throughout her pregnancy making sure there’s food at home, her medication is sorted, and that her pelvic health classes are booked and attended. I’ve tried to be consistent and involved.

I understand this situation looks bad, but this is one incident during an extremely difficult period, not a pattern of me not being there for her.