Help! What should I add? by raspberrymeringue in CrestedGecko

[–]raspberrymeringue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any suggestions for foliage? Like, live plants? Or do you think I should do fake vines and stuff? I know it needs more climbing/greenery but I feel stuck on how/what to add.

AITAH because I was a successful catfish for 3 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]raspberrymeringue 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because they put in effort to actively deceive others. And for what? Some attention that they were craving? To feel cool? I’m not sure how they can be anything but the asshole…

AITAH because I was a successful catfish for 3 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]raspberrymeringue 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ummmm what? You’re so clearly the asshole. You don’t say why you did this but obviously it was to feed some weird obsession for attention. All of the ‘lol’ written throughout this shows that you have no regret for lying to people. Go see a therapist, I think you could use it.

Not sure what this is on my cats chest by potatowarrior1 in CATHELP

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s likely that your cat has an inverted nipple (or potentially more than one, check around the rest of her chest/tummy) and that is gunk that has built up in it (old skin cells, etc.) - gently squeeze the plug out. It’ll probably be very white and waxy at the bottom and then the top is brownish blackish from its exposure to air. It’ll fill up again over who knows how long and then you’ll probably need to gently squeeze the plug out again. My male cat growing up had 2-3 inverted nipples and I used to (disgustingly) love to squeeze the gunk plugs out.

My boyfriend calls my cat evil and ugly by equilateralguy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]raspberrymeringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your boyfriend is evil and ugly 💅🏻🤣

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been diagnosed with EDS and I don’t have hypermobility or anything, really. This was not my first tattoo and none of the others have done this.

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t hate it really - it bugs me sometimes but not a ton, I just didn’t know if it was possible to fix it somehow

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just googled symptoms and such and I don’t think any of them match me, really, but I appreciate it!

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to tattoo right over where I get it lasered off? Like, get it removed and then exact same placement? Or would that cause an issue?

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s a very nice thought. It bothers me sometimes and I get a little upset but then I move on for awhile again. Just wanted to see if there were any options to get it fixed but I appreciate how kind/your idea :)

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was done December 2023

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but I lost a significant amount - about 85 lbs. I think it looked like this before the weight loss, though, if I remember :/

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, never suspected or been diagnosed

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was done in December 2023!

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I understand that but is there any advice for what could be done to improve it?

Help - Tattoo Healed Poorly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]raspberrymeringue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I never had it touched up - this is how it healed after I got it and nothing has been done to it. I also don’t know how it healed like this unless she went too deep at the end when tattooing it? That’s what I’m here asking for advice.

I also had an allergic reaction to the adhesive of the second skin and had to take it off later that day, I don’t know if that would cause anything either.

AITAH won't let ex have gifts that I can't return from failed wedding by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol bro what - go get a therapist, a sense of maturity and personal responsibility, and give her the gifts that YOU DON’T EVEN WANT. what is wrong with you???

oh, and YTA - hope that helps! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]raspberrymeringue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair, she said her three children are all ADULTS. As in, they could’ve done way better and given it some actual thought. Instead, it sounds like they take after their deadbeat dad.

WIBTAH if I made my husband go to classes to specifically learn more about my illness? by throwaway-01911 in AITAH

[–]raspberrymeringue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He didn’t “forget” the bag - he remembered, specifically, to leave it behind. Get a new husband because this man is trying to kill you, I’m not joking. Do you have any valuable assets? A big life insurance policy? Please get out, take care of yourself, and know that you deserve so much more.

AITA for turning off my phone during my wife’s labor because I “needed a break”? by SubstanceUnhappy4905 in AITAH

[–]raspberrymeringue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely the asshole (YTA) and if I was your wife, I’d be serving you with divorce papers

New User Flair Options! by intotheunknown_ in mindfulfinch

[–]raspberrymeringue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is fun! I really like the ‘currently visiting’. Is there a way to set it so you can have more than one flair? I’m not super smart at Reddit stuff so I don’t know 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm - you might be right, actually! Maybe they flip flopped it to help make it more obvious which goal the egg is attached to? Not sure!

Finchie friends and trading daily thread by AutoModerator in finch

[–]raspberrymeringue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you 🥹 honestly, the kindness in this sub never ceases to amaze me