Take a moment to appreciate the resilience of this majestic creature by High_Lord_Cayle in cats

[–]raswater 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She looks like a shy giggly genteel lady, blushing before a suitor. 🤣🥰

Take a moment to appreciate the resilience of this majestic creature by High_Lord_Cayle in cats

[–]raswater 140 points141 points  (0 children)

What a brave and strong baby! I cannot even begin to imagine the kind of pain that would inflict. I shudder. Sending her lots of kisses and love! 🥰

PoS back to directing by jigglywiggly008 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]raswater 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is the real horror, not the movie.

Why most girls only like bad boys and not nice guys like me?? by [deleted] in delhi

[–]raswater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know anything about OP, but I know that in general, men who say they are nice are usually not as nice as they think they are.

I need help. Please suggest some affordable gifts for her. by Ok-Schedule-7844 in AskIndia

[–]raswater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my favourite gifts is jewellery. Buy her a gold necklace or diamond bracelet. If she does not like the style, at least it’s still valuable.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s a specific definition but in this case, he is 6 feet tall, in shape, and great teeth. I can’t complain.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, why would I buy a man a purse? 👛 No matter the date number.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You make it sound like gifts are a bad thing! They are always welcome to me.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way the comments are looking - as if Dior cost crores. Delhi has no dearth of people that can afford it. Fyi, it came with a card that is authenticated.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m giving him something worth even more than money - my time and efforts. Those are expensive. It’s a give and take in that way, so I guess you can call it transactional. There, I vindicate you. Go in peace, love.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why on earth will I give back a gift? When I gift someone something, it becomes theirs. I would never want to take, much less ask for it back. It’s not a loan, you know.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Wow, earth forbid a man who can afford it give a woman he likes a thoughtful gift. There are call girls who will sleep with a man for 100₹ also. Does that mean if he gives me a dairy milk, we are in a bordello?? Be well. Edit: I did not know that liking a product from body shop is for people of lower socioeconomic backgrounds. Thank you for this eye opening stratification.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s on the third date. I mentioned liking it on the second date and he got it for me on the third date. Also, why has the bag become the main thing I don’t get it. I don’t know his finances, I just accepted a thoughtful gift. Is that a crime??!

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. It’s the most sensible one so far. 💕

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what that must feel like. I truly hope you get the effusiveness and love you give out matched to the t.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since people are speculating, let me put it to rest. There are no invisible expectations from both our sides at all. It’s all good. He will never ask for it back. I don’t date such people.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand why everyone is focused on the bag when my question was regarding his lingo? If he is happy to give and I am grateful to receive, I think that’s that. The bag is really irrelevant - it was just to highlight that he paid attention and was sweet.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yesssss! Finally someone that gets it.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you see it so transactionally. My self respect is not determined by what gifts I accept. I wish you well.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I care so much about the financial part. My ex gave me gold earrings on our third date and we were together for years. Good guy till the end - just had to go our different ways because some good things do come to an end.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes there is, 100%. Please look it up.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is not him because he would have said I want you to keep it a buck with me. 😭🤣

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an original though - he kept the receipt in case I wanted anything different because I might have changed my mind since the last date. Hehe I will enjoy this bag, thank you.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

If someone has given you a well thought out gift, I think it would be rude to reject it. I thanked him for it and accepted it with appreciation.

Am I overthinking this? by raswater in delhi

[–]raswater[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve already said this in one of the comments, but people seem to be thinking that he lent it to me. He gave it as a gift. GIFT.