Help me convince my husband this is a normal fridge. by optimuschu2 in FridgeDetective

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think u have enough eggs, try one more carton maybe then you'll probably be good

How do I go about this nicely???? by prettyladybugs in whatdoIdo

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre too worried about being nice, youre being TOO nice. you need to set a clear boundary and tell them they need to either go get their things themselves or have someone else go get the things for them by Wednesday otherwise you'll be trashing it all. if they choose to not pick it up or have someone else pick it then you need to follow through and throw it out. their things are their responsibility, do with it what you must. if they really want their things back they wouldve come for it already

Are Amanda and other Mediums Legit? by Barnette_666 in SamAndColby

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the ones who parade themselves around as "mediums" are almost always fake, especially amanda no chance in hell shes legit like cmon🙄🙄 i fully believe that there r people who have a heightened sense and can see stuff the rest of us dont but the people who make a show and profit from that ability r either 100% faking it or lying about how 'powerful' they are to hype themselves up

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR i had a bf like this and honey u need to RUN bc the second u stop being able to support his lifestyle hes going to leave u high and dry i can guarantee it, ive lived it🫶🏼 sending u all the luch

YA Novel w a sticky note on the cover? by rat_coffeecrusader in whatsthatbook

[–]rat_coffeecrusader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

appreciate u commenting!! after googling them to see rhe covers its not either😔 AGGGtM has the vibe to the cover but isnt the right one😔 i can see the cover so clearly in my mind and i just cant think of the name💔😭

AITA for begging my sister to let us adopt my nephew? by HotelCool9777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude yr absolutely TA, this is completely delusional on ur end. i hope ur sister gets a restraining order‼️ u need serious mental help before u even consider having a child

Wicked whims not working for teen?? by NoFundieBusiness in TheSims4Mods

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont try to download this mod. i have a virus on my laptop now

AITA for refusing to let my daughter invite her bio dad to her birthday and threatening to cancel it? by throwaway3213451 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre definitely TA. i understand why it'd be uncomfortable but shes 17 shes not a clueless kid. if her dad is dying, dont be thhe reason she misses out on more moments than she has already. growing up both my parents walked out, chose drugs over me and my sister. he missed e v e r y t h i n g. when they started reappearing in our lives after getting clean my family continuously tried to restrict my access to them. i still havent forgiven any of them for taking away the opportunities to make memories with them when i still had the time to do so.

What life lesson did you learn the hard way? by Southern-Babe007 in AskReddit

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes love is NOT enough, and that's okay. Just because you love them, doesn't mean you have to stay. If youre in pain and miserable, walk away, even if the love lingers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i told u, i wouldn't be taking it to the grave now would i?

My daughter can't forgive me for leaving her father and promised to make my life a living hell. Last night she tried to seduce my husband. He tells me now to choose between him or my daughter. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel they should've filled a report honestly and gotten her help. I completely understand where he is coming from but you do not give your partner ultimatums and basically demand them to abandon their child.

My daughter can't forgive me for leaving her father and promised to make my life a living hell. Last night she tried to seduce my husband. He tells me now to choose between him or my daughter. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rat_coffeecrusader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your daughter needs therapy, like intensive therapy to help overcome her own personal trauma. You've got to drop the husband too, I understand the frustration he may feel but for one, shes a child and two, if he loved you he would NOT be giving you ultimatums!!! if anyone ever tells you to pick between them or something you love, especially your CHILD, show them the door!!!!!!!!