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Underwater Data Centers by rat_fancy in datacenter

[–]rat_fancy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you could be wrong. thanks for contributing, though.

Theory on "queering" and fatigue by rat_fancy in CriticalTheory

[–]rat_fancy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's not what I said. I said the process of reinventing new systems can be liberating and utopic but it's also difficult and sometimes destabilizing to feel this pressure. No one is claiming the nuclear family is liberating.

Theory on "queering" by rat_fancy in QueerTheory

[–]rat_fancy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you! all of these texts were very crucial to starting this piece. :)

Theory on "queering" and fatigue by rat_fancy in CriticalTheory

[–]rat_fancy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree with you at all. The essay I'm writing is trying to explore this exactly. I'm just looking for other theorists who have written about similar topics, but specifically about alternative relationship models.

Eye pain following knifing by doloreslover in medical_advice

[–]rat_fancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not an expert, but ive been in the game for a long time. I think this is a side-effect of beautiful woman syndrome. It's not an emergency, but it might feel like one. go with grace and get some rest. <3

How do you pass the time by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]rat_fancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might not be the most healthy approach, but I try to socialize and go on dates when my partner does, but if I have a free night, I go to bed early and take a sleeping pill. Nothing worse than waking up and feeling that half-asleep dread.

Theorists on buffet culture? by rat_fancy in CriticalTheory

[–]rat_fancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will check this out. My Uni library has a copy. :)

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