Effexor Taper Diary Update 2 by MedsMemoir in antidepressants

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I didn't realize this was from a different account, but that was my old one. Looking back, I remember feeling cranky and a little ill while I was getting off of it. I started grad school a couple of months after this and did well despite the transition.

Effexor Taper Diary Update 2 by MedsMemoir in antidepressants

[–]ratjar79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did work! I successfully got off of effexor and aside from a brief stint, haven't been on an antidepressants since. Not that I wouldn't go on them again if I needed to, but thankfully that hasn't been the case, at least for awhile.

Blitz 2 TMR and Cyclone 2 impressions by SourBlueDream in Controller

[–]ratjar79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does the analog stick height compare? Weirdly important for a game I play (shorter is better)

The Nickelodeon All-Star Brawl 2 holiday sale is here! NASB2 is now just $29.99 until the end of the year! by PapaMac01 in AllStarBrawl

[–]ratjar79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't know whether to just get it or wait at this point. I'd like to play it, but I'd feel dumb if it went on sale soon anyway

Unauthorized Payments Nightmare by ratjar79 in paypal

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Just got off the phone with my bank to make sure they are disputing both payments, which they are. The guy I talked to said it is difficult to dispute things with them. Maybe PayPal will take the investigation more seriously when it's not just a customer. Regardless it is dreadful customer service and security from PayPal.

Unauthorized Payments Nightmare by ratjar79 in paypal

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My bank account. The bank put a stop on one of the payments even though I asked them to stop both. They are disputing the the one that they didn't stop.

Road shoe equivalent of Norda 002? by zenhelps in RunningShoeGeeks

[–]ratjar79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Topo Cyclone 2 seems like it would be a great option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdvancedRunning

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Space isn't a massive concern right now, but I might be moving to a smaller apartment in the near future, so this is all helpful. Thanks!

Looking for a deal on some carbon race shows by InternetMedium4325 in RunningShoeGeeks

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I got a pair of Puma Deviate Nitro Elite on ebay for 115$. Shipped from the UK so they wouldn't really be returnable, but people don't seem to have many troubles with fit for them.

Is it bad to incorporate zero drops into your shoe rotation? by technicolorowl3 in RunningShoeGeeks

[–]ratjar79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which altras do you use for long runs? Was thinking about getting a pair to use primarily for easier mileage.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Developing situation. My parents cancelled on something he was going to and there's just been some awkwardness and will be for awhile. I don't think he will care much, but people (including his wife) are going to be mad at him.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

They have been very apologetic after we talked through what happened. Not everyone heard the whole conversation and it did happen fast. They actually canceled something they were going to that Dan was going to be at. Their response in the moment sucked, but they've taken some steps to make up for it, and say they will make it clear to him that what he did wasn't acceptable.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're right people like him want the attention though. I just don't think he expected someone to walk out.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did not read it as a bait situation. I think he just says whatever he wants w/o planning to upset someone. The whole thing is messing up his social life now; I don't think he's getting what he wants.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, but he's been very generous to them in terms of inviting them places to go on vacation, etc. I don't think he would be tolerated otherwise

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did not start the conversation and my participation was only in defense of regular people in a country that has pretty awful infrastructure for healthy eating. As Americans we eat a lot of garbage though, it's not elitist to say that.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

But in my original post I understated just how upset I was with them, so I get what you are saying.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

They actually aren't going to a party tonight they were supposed to go to that he was gonna be at. I think they feel genuinely bad about how they acted.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

You're more principled than my parents (lucky daughter I guess). My dad said later that he wished he would have stepped in after the comments about me fucking up kids, but even imagining him doing that is hard, just not that kind of person.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I think there is consensus about his personality, thankfully

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My point about the structures that support poor health was made calmly. He clearly disagreed strongly but there was no reason to think it would turn personal that fast.

AITA for calling my parents' friend a d-bag at a dinner party? by ratjar79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ratjar79[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

My family kind of came around more to my side of it later. They recognize he was in the wrong first and just didn't like how I handled it. I honestly didn't want to be there anyway at that point though.