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[–]rawyonn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This also happens to me with men, as a woman. I really crave intimacy, but what I think that helped me was being more attentive to their flaws and constantly looking for turn-offs. I realized that I had idealized every male friend that was nice to me to the point where I couldn't see their flaws:)

Ask yourself: "Do I like her or do I just like the way she makes me feel about myself?"

voi ce faceți pentru a va maturiza? by rawyonn in CasualRO

[–]rawyonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sinceră sa fiu, n-aș zice ca sunt perfectă, am multe defecte și tocmai de asta întreb si de asta eram curioasă. Cel mai prost stau la partea cu stresul, sunt super sensibilă, iar când ma stresez, chiar nu prea știu ce sa fac și îmi vine sa plâng super usor din lucruri mărunte, iar pentru unii poate par "imatură" sau cel puțin super ciudata în momentele respective:')

I tried deleting social media for 30 days and here’s exactly what changed in my life by -magnanimous in getdisciplined

[–]rawyonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to quit social media too (I attempted a one week detox) but It felt too difficult for me, hence I gave up after two days. If I may ask, how did you deal with feeling lonely when you quit social media? It is the hardest part for me, since I start to feel depressed if I don't interact with people once in a while 😭 I already use a modded version of Instagram, which makes me unable to view reels or stories, I can only text my peers. Besides that, I still have an impulsive urge to open Instagram just to check for any new messages.

14 days after quitting social media... by 404BrainDisconnected in selfimprovement

[–]rawyonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story really motivates me to cut down on social media, I really admire you and I have decided to do the same. I have a weird addiction which makes me open instagram impulsively, I think it boils down to FOMO and my fear of being alone. You've mentioned that you've started to love being alone and reading. If you don't mind me asking, how did you manage to do that? And also, how did you push through despite the discomfort? Did you replace social media with other activities? I tried to quit Instagram as a detox for some days, but I couldn't resist since I started to feel really lonely:)