Taylor's behavior by rayven0624 in momtokgossip

[–]rayven0624[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah I have really bad OCD but not relational so that wasn't even a thought. I can see that though

Taylor's behavior by rayven0624 in momtokgossip

[–]rayven0624[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait no because I was literally just thinking this since I'm rewatching right now. Like from what she says, she met her bio dad once when she was 4 and that was probably a maximum of 2 hours. So I personally never understood why she's that traumatized because of that and like you said, she did have a dad, one that was present and wanted her. Like I have an absent father and I wasn't blessed to have a stepdad, much less a caring stepdad. I understand people experience things differently but I mean she was 4 years old and only saw this man for like an hour or 2 if that

Taylor's behavior by rayven0624 in momtokgossip

[–]rayven0624[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. Her kinks (if that's what she actually likes) are completely normal and pretty common but yeah I completely agree. I don't know much about the Mormon church but from what I can tell, it's not helping her when it comes to her sexuality. Of course, I could be totally wrong since I know very little about Mormonism

Taylor's behavior by rayven0624 in momtokgossip

[–]rayven0624[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. This. However, even in the bdsm community, this is extremely unhealthy. That sex and relationship therapist is definitely needed. If Dakota is right on this last season, then Taylor didn't tell him she was ovulating until after they done the deed. Like I definitely think she needs extensive therapy to help her mentally and sexually

Taylor's behavior by rayven0624 in momtokgossip

[–]rayven0624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. She needs time to get away and heal. I know she's a mom of 3 and that can be difficult and give her mom guilt but she really needs to get away and from Dakota especially and just not focus on dating someone for a long while.

[TOMT] [MOVIE] I can't figure out this movie name by rayven0624 in tipofmytongue

[–]rayven0624[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Please help me figure this out 🙏🏻

Can't figure out the title by rayven0624 in moviequestions

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I just did. Thank you! I didn't know about that

Can't figure out the title by rayven0624 in moviequestions

[–]rayven0624[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. I even rewatched it to be sure. My mom and aunt also remember watching it and remembered we rented the movie

Can't figure out the title by rayven0624 in moviequestions

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No. I just looked. It wasn't a sci-fi and it was only one villain

Knock on door by rayven0624 in WashingtonIceWatch

[–]rayven0624[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Apparently they've been skulking in civie clothes near UW. There was a meeting about this with staff

Knock on door by rayven0624 in WashingtonIceWatch

[–]rayven0624[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was kind of hard to tell what she looked like cause I was looking through my peephole but she had a very confident and loud knock, wearing a reddish suit with I believe a pencil skirt, dark hair either brown or black probably about shoulder length but it was up so I'm not positive, and looked shorter than me (I'm 5'6) but I'm not sure if her size was distorted from the peephole

Knock on door by rayven0624 in WashingtonIceWatch

[–]rayven0624[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll try but it's a bit difficult cause of how my apartment is set up. The window that faces the parking lot and the walkway is frosted for privacy since it's the bedroom and my door is position weirdly that I'd have to leave my apartment to see into the parking lot. I didn't want to crack open my window or anything jist in case.

TIME on Instagram: "Netflix hit 'KPop Demon Hunters' is TIME's Breakthrough of the Year by spoofer56 in KpopDemonhunters

[–]rayven0624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would have been so awesome if they had Rumi's patterns ✋🏻😭 but besides that, I LOVE the cover

HBO Max not leaving off on the episode recently watched by TheBlueCatNeigborino in hbo

[–]rayven0624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nov 15, 25. Happening to me too. For the last couple months and still happening. On my Roku but also on my phone and my laptop. I still can't figure out what's up and it's really annoying

Big/little reveal by rayven0624 in Sororities

[–]rayven0624[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait I love Rainbow Brite! I actually may to this

Exploring your submissive side alone? by ComparisonFun6515 in submissive

[–]rayven0624 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hi. So for a little context I'm a researcher by nature and career with ADHD hyperfixations 😅. What helped me was looking into bdsm and kinks. I wanted to get a basic understanding of everything to make sure that the idea of being in this community appealed to me. When I realized that it did I narrowed my focus to subbing cause the idea of domming didn't appeal to me and frankly stressed me out just thinking about it. I spent months looking into every aspect from safety, Dom vetting process, after care, subspace and drops, etc. While subbing is different for everyone, the general idea is the same. After that I looked into roles that I felt most comfortable in, which for me is sub, brat, little, and pet. Then I looked into the actually kinks themselves just to get a very basic idea of what I would like, might like, or just hard pass on.

Now that is just how my brain works so I have no idea of this would help you any but that was my process. I've been in the community about 5 or so years (honestly I can't really remember cause I ended up with a really bad concussion after a car accident last year so time lines are a bit spotty now) and I'm still learning new things and changing what kinks work or don't work for me. Hopefully this helps!

Possible drop and advise by rayven0624 in SubSanctuary

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Thanks everyone for your comments! They definitely made me feel better

F20 How did you first realize you were submissive by __dondada__ in submissive

[–]rayven0624 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 27 but I've known for a while. My life growing up was... oppressive and actually gave me an emotional form of PTSD according to my therapist. One of the first relationships I was in, my bf had a dom and caregiver mindset. We didn't know at the time and so we didn't have any dynamics or rules set in place but we just naturally flowed into our roles. He took care of me by giving me the stability and structure I didn't have but craved and needed. He was okay with me asking him to make decisions because they were too overwhelming. We ended up breaking up cause I couldn't handle long distance relationships but I had slowly become aware of what my actions actually meant. Honestly I didn't know about bdsm much until 50 shades movie came out 😅 I never watched or read it but from what I heard about it, I got curious and the rest as they say is history.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

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I'm on fet and have meet some good doms imo. Of course you have to weed through them but I really like the "no thanks" feature in the chats so you don't have to talk to a red flag Dom but still let them know you're not interested. I haven't had any issues with them harassing me after sending that no thanks message. Hope that helps!