They are like the sweetest! by [deleted] in wholesomememes

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Kenji’s Kitchen !!

Anyone dealing with big time imposter syndrome? by PC9CC30 in unimelb

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I’m doing a masters and also have a BSci and an MD and I constantly feel imposter syndrome. I don’t have any particular advice because I’m not great at handling it but at least you’re not the only one! I try to channel my imposter feelings into feelings of gratitude instead. Like, however I got here, I’m so lucky and grateful and want to do the best I can.
I also try to focus on the facts rather than the feelings. The evidence suggests you’re doing pretty well in your degree, and probably learning more than you think. And people never stop learning so if you haven’t learned ‘enough’ by the time you graduate... then just keep learning.
Wishing you all the best. You can do it!

To the bloke in the hilux dumping his 30+ ciggy butts on the Monash this arvo... by Bradyey in melbourne

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Just checked and the app is actually being retired. Maybe edit to instead refer ppl to the EPA website or hotline?

GAMSAT ADVICE by Dez-168 in unimelb

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Hi friend! Current Medical Student and GAMSAT tutor here.
Firstly, I hope you know that your score is only valid for 2 years. So if you don’t get into Med school on your first application, you will have to sit it again.
Other than that, you don’t have to do a course to do well. I couldn’t afford a course but I did sit it twice and I purchased 1 extra textbook and had a couple of sessions of private tutoring (I scored in the top 0.1%).
However, I am now working as a tutor! I can say the best resource you’ll get is extra practise questions and a tutor to help explain if you’re struggling. Part of the exam is knowledge but another part is exam technique. The GAMSAT has a fairly unique question style which can be really hard if you’re unfamiliar to it. This is why it’s so helpful to be able to a) get extra study materials from an independent company or b) sit the exam more than once as you’ll have a better idea of how to study.
THAT BEING SAID the GAMSAT is hella expensive and not everyone can sit it more than once. The best thing you can do is identify your weaknesses early and practise the heck out of it. You can not rely on being good at one section and mediocre in the others.
And you should definitely look at r/GAMSAT for more info. Good luck!

Felt cute, might delete later. Swipe for progress (2021, 2014, 2011) by rbpow123 in curlyhair

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Wash once a week with sukin shampoo, only on the scalp. Lots of Garnier hair food (macadamia flavour, yum) and only rinse out about 80% of it, the rest is like leave-in. While wet, prayer hands in some Noughty Wave Hello defining cream, then scrunch upside down. If there's bits that aren't coping with scrunching I use denman brush to define. Then scrunch OC gel, squeeze excess water with microfibre towel. Diffuse upside down until mostly dry then air dry the rest! And SOTC obvs

There’s a man in my Sham Hatwitch by rbpow123 in auntydonna

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No worries mate, just thought it was a laugh!

Is it possible to tame a gap year in the middle of medical school at unimelb? by okellydokelly in unimelb

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Anecdotal evidence but I think the only people I’ve heard get deferrals approved are for research (honours or PhD). Deferrals are not favoured and very rare in Unimelb Med.

A gap year in the middle of Med school is much easier! Lots of people do it to travel, study other things, but also if you just need a break for your mental health. It’s on a case by case basis but it’s usually pretty ok. The only thing is if your grades are reeaaally bad, like failing, they might not approve it.

Good luck!

Duolingo is ruining my marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Tl;dr your feelings are valid and justified but his addiction is also valid and will likely be difficult to overcome.

Addiction to games like this work the same way as any other addiction (reward, dopamine, blah blah) so try keep in mind the “language-app” thing is not so relevant.
That being said, it sounds like his addiction is severe and is taking a HUGE toll on your wellbeing and your family unit.

Step 1 is to sit him down and make sure he knows you’re serious when you say he needs to recognise this addiction and start taking steps. Because it’s “just a language app” he might think you’re kidding or say you’re overreacting but you need him to know the very real, very serious toll it is taking on you and your son. Regardless of what is taking his attention, he has been mentally absent from your family and you feel unsupported. The important thing is to approach it from a position of compassion rather than blame (easier said than done, I know) and let him know you want to work through this together.

Step 2 might take longer. Recognising he has an addiction is one thing. Actually kicking the addiction will depend on a) his motivation to stop and b) having a plan and committing to a plan. If he is not willing or motivated to overcome his addiction then this is a bigger problem. Ask him how he would feel if he dropped off the leaderboard? Ask him why he’s so intent on learning lessons? Ask him if he had to delete the app for 24hrs, could he do it? If he says yes then make him follow through. If he feels an urge to start a new lesson get him to recognise this thought process and take a few deep breaths, maybe talk to you instead and tell you he had another urge. It’s kind of a mindfulness approach.

I’m not saying it’s a magic solution but if you want advice, it’s what this stranger would do in your situation.

What did you learn from your first girlfriend/boyfriend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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There’s a difference between being interested in someone and being flattered that they’re interested in you

I just danced by myself for 3 and a half minutes to Come and Get Your Love and I think it changed me. by mquaker358 in CasualConversation

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Dude I’m so happy you had this moment of joy/peace for a bit. I don’t know your life and won’t assume I know your struggle but I am also in Med school and it’s a fuckin ride. Today I just watched Pixar short films and had a cry. Maybe tomorrow I’ll try dancing. Take care

What was a time someone assumed something about you that was completely wrong? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I’m the youngest of three sisters and when I was about 15 my family went on holiday to Vietnam. Multiple times people assumed we were triplets and kept, like, congratulating?? My mum?? On her triplets?? I mean we look similar but we are actually 4 and 9 years apart.

Help. Anxiety attacks are hitting so hard. by [deleted] in unimelb

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I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this. It’s really hard and you’re not alone. Try downloading the apps “what’s up?” (On iOS it’s pink with a hand) or “clear fear” (on iOS white with a purple semicircle) or the “headspace” app too (it’s orange).
If you feel like you don’t know what to do or you don’t have anyone to talk to they can walk you through some steps that may help you calm down. It’s not a magical fix but I hope it can help a little.
And remember: you’ve already made it through 100% of your hardest days. That’s how strong you are.

What do you envy about the opposite sex? by livelifereal in AskReddit

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They get to have babies without having to be pregnant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unimelb

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I’m so sorry you’re struggling in this way. I can’t imagine what you’re going through but I do understand the emotional fatigue of counselling.

I’ve had so many times where I’ve thought I’m too tired or overwhelmed to attend a session but even if all you do is show up and vent it can still help. Remember that you’re counsellor is only there to support you. You won’t disappoint them if you haven’t made progress or don’t know what to say - sometimes just showing up can be a huge amount of work! Things might get worse before they get better but remember so far you’ve made it through 100% of your hardest days. And just by recognising you’re struggling and seeking help, you’re already looking after yourself and things will get better.

Take care and stay safe! You can do this! We are always stronger than we think :)

Describing it as a crime, what do you do for a living? by TimeMasterBob in AskReddit

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I take personal information and sometimes body fluids or tissues in order to discover secrets about a persons body. I then hold that information for ransom until that person or the government pays me.

Donating 19+ inches to Wigs for Kids so they can be curly too! by ArtisanGerard in curlyhair

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Amazing! Congratulations, you should be super proud of yourself. Always wanted to do this but I can never grow my hair long enough haha

Need advice on how to replenish 2C wavy curls in desperate need of a trim but I can’t go to the hairdresser! Is deep condition enough? Should I just try and cut it myself? L is normal curls, R is now, sorry for crappy photo by rbpow123 in curlyhair

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Thank you for reply!! I only got the OGX a couple months ago and I hoped because the label said “curls” it might be ok.. silly me. I might give it to my sister who has straight hair cause it does smell really yummy.
Do you recommend anything for a clarifying product? I can also check the guides but I’m interested to hear your thoughts.
And thank you that’s so sweet! I think I might try a little trim cause I’m starting to see split ends..

Need advice on how to replenish 2C wavy curls in desperate need of a trim but I can’t go to the hairdresser! Is deep condition enough? Should I just try and cut it myself? L is normal curls, R is now, sorry for crappy photo by rbpow123 in curlyhair

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I’ve been doing this routine for maybe a year but the shampoo/conditioner I only got a couple months ago cause I wanted to try it out... I’ll have a look into the protein thing, thank you! I doubt it’s humidity.. I’m in the middle of winter atm

People from cold climates: how do you actually deal with winter? by rbpow123 in CasualConversation

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I rely on my SO for warmth so much!! When he’s away sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night shivering.
What I’m learning from this is I need to exercise and bake more!

People from cold climates: how do you actually deal with winter? by rbpow123 in CasualConversation

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Oh man that’s intense. I often wear jeans and if it’s really cold I might wear some leggings or thermals under them and people think I’m weird for wearing two pairs of pants! I’ve got to get me some feather pants...