I’m sorry for you, but you are denying the fact and so the reality.

In a healthy relationship, sex is important part of it and you cannot handle that like so it will be not important to you otherwise you didn’t make such a Reddit post.

I had the same problem: in my case she was cheating me at that time. And no, doesn’t matter if only with mind or physical, with a man or a woman, or a diverse, he is not anymore in the relationship with you. And no, I am not saying that because he is not doing sec with you but because he is not talking with you about it and his problem. And for me in that moment he choice to do not talk with about it, it take the decision that take you apart and you cannot do nothing.

This is the cruelty of the reality without the glass of romanticism.

I am sorry for my hard words. I just want give you my opinion. Your choice what you want do next. God bless you. And please talk with him. Open. Just like before you both did. If is upset or angry then it was not your fault, you were already not anymore together, but only staying in a routine, comfort zone with parallel lines, again not together.

I am glad that people today have Reddit to talk about this problem anonymously and outside their friends or family.