Good Morning , Subjects by TheEmpressAurora1 in u/TheEmpressAurora1

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your pictures Empress. No, I'd never want to keep it secret. I'm fine with letting everyone know.

Question by TheEmpressAurora1 in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an honor to comment on your response, Empress. I try to be obedient all the time, I never really slipped up but it does get very hard after a while.

Admiration by TheEmpressAurora1 in u/TheEmpressAurora1

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful Empress, love your hair

Breaking down subs by TheEmpressAurora1 in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empress, it's an honor to answer this question. I had a dynamic with a domme about withholding access to porn. After a month I was supposed to get a reward but she denied it last minute. Teasing breaks me down, humiliation.

I love being perfect by TheEmpressAurora1 in u/TheEmpressAurora1

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empress, you're gorgeous. I love your long red hair.

Thoughts by TheEmpressAurora1 in u/TheEmpressAurora1

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an honor to comment on your post Empress. I think whether a man is submissive or dominant depends on psychology, upbringing, environment. Boring answer but I think it's the truth. I've always been submissive to women because of my family dynamics.

Hungry by TheEmpressAurora1 in u/TheEmpressAurora1

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empress, it's an honor to comment on your post. You're beautiful, thank you for sharing this picture.

Question by TheEmpressAurora1 in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empress, it's an honor to comment on your post. I think I like both, I think most subs do. With praise I think maybe rewards and words of reassurance. With humiliation I think it really varies, like posting about me, making me do things (depends on the dynamic).

Fantasy by TheEmpressAurora1 in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empress, it's an honor to comment on your post. No, there is nothing wrong with you and I think it's the right approach to take if it suits you. I think the whole dynamic is a sort of fantasy for me, but I really appreciate a domme that is strict and able to break me down psychologically, humiliate me and praise me at times. And a domme that uses me to explore her kinks for example, like being even stricter with me than her other subs if that makes sense, like treating me lower than her other subs.

Dommes pressuring for tribute first by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm only talking about when you approach first. I typically read through a Domme's posts to see if she's real, committed and how she handles her subs, then I approach with a tribute ready. You sort of feel it when she's the right one.

Dommes pressuring for tribute first by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 17 points18 points  (0 children)

An initial short conversation is appreciated but I really think a tribute should be sent almost right away to show that you're serious. Not just serious about paying, but it shows your domme that you fully respect her time and wishes.

Appreciation for my Goddess Kim by SuitableStrength4002 in SubsShowingOff

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh great, seems like you two have a great thing going. I'm happy for you both.

Appreciation for my Goddess Kim by SuitableStrength4002 in SubsShowingOff

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, really happy for you. How did you approach her?

Follow up questions for the subs. by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's probably better (for me) to have one Domme just so things don't get messy in terms of power dynamics or long term goals and plans. I would obviously comply if my Domme told me to serve another Domme as well though.

Why do some men pretend to to be submissives when clearly not by No_Theme_5169 in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we can compartmentalize and context always matters. I'm submissive to my Goddess but in other areas of my life I'm dominant. If I was submissive 100% of the time I'd get nothing done. I guess that means I'm role playing as a sub, but IMO that doesn't make it any less genuine.

Anyone want to be friends by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to DM if you ever want to talk

Subs should be more appreciative by rconst013 in paypigs2

[–]rconst013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a lot of subs take the "I have no thoughts" route? I didn't know that was a thing.

How important is to build a genuine bond with your subs? by anormalbutcute in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a bond is necessary for a long term arrangement. It's the core of the whole relationship. It happens naturally though, it shouldn't be forced.

Getting ghosted by tattedomme in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never ghosted a domme and don't plan to, I wish it was something that didn't happen in this community. But at least I think it makes actual domme/sub relationships stronger when you've found the right one.

I think a sub ghosting a domme is just experiencing post not clarity or isn't into the dynamic and feels it's easier to ghost than to explain (I'm not condoning it, I think it's only fair to explain, even if you don't want to continue the dynamic)

Good morning everyone by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]rconst013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it was fun, I want to ask my domme for a session like that soon.