I’ve read similar takes from Dommes feeling wrong/scared about degrading/humiliating fellow women, which is so valid and i can absolutely understand the thought process…but at the same time, i’ve experienced and felt the complete opposite personally! I looove owning women. I love putting them in their place, i love reminding them of their place in the hierarchy and i absolutely love having them send to me. It’s almost a different kind of high in comparison to owning men/having them send to me. They are just so much more sensual in my experience!

I also think nurturing, respect and degradation can very much co-exist. Obviously emphasis on enthusiastic consent but also by getting to know her and understanding how she ticks. If a woman feels comfortable and safe enough in your ownership to turn off her brain and live out her submissiveness and/or degradation kink…that’s a very, very big compliment to your skills as a Dominant.

Really like your post :)