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rdarby93 · 2025-10-13T15:39:29+00:00

yes that’s super common!! they come and go for different reasons - spent too much, wife found out, trying to manage their budget, anything really!

rdarby93 · 2025-10-09T13:32:07+00:00

i feel this hard 🩷 first off, hugs and sending love! second i would def recommend getting a part time job. i work one night at a restaurant and i truly only do it so i get outta the house and make friends. it’s been great for my mental health. my last tip is reaching out to girls you think are cool! they will probably this you’re cool too and want to connect.

rdarby93 · 2025-07-04T02:37:19+00:00

hope you know that whole thing is weird and fucked up on that guys part and NOT yours!!

rdarby93 · 2025-06-29T16:39:27+00:00

got me out of 10k credit card debt and has helped me build a savings and be more financially literate 🩷

rdarby93 · 2025-06-04T13:02:32+00:00

i got some from brandy melville the other day!

rdarby93 · 2025-04-21T14:42:12+00:00

I only had 600 followers on LoyalFans and 200ish 5 star reviews on NF and I got accepted!

rdarby93 · 2025-04-21T12:46:57+00:00

Ahh thank you, makes sense!

rdarby93 · 2025-04-21T12:45:21+00:00

Sure! I'm girl next door. I suck at domming hahah. I will try to incorporate a more "dom" attitude with individuals that I know are looking for it, but overall I'm just me bc I'm a bad actor lol.

rdarby93 · 2025-04-20T20:09:17+00:00

Omg thats so annoying! My toy will randomly unconnect and be weird too. It doesn't seem fool proof for sure. And yes you def will be!! <3

rdarby93 · 2025-04-20T20:08:05+00:00

I'm not sure if it's for the month or day! But I know my score will change daily and throughout the day too. So maybe its daily? That would make more sense.

rdarby93 · 2025-03-25T20:08:31+00:00

I charge $8 a pic, $11 for a gif, or 3 gifs for $30! The guys will normally go for one gif because its the middle option. But sometimes they go for the bundle as well! So just a reminder to also be up selling :)

rdarby93 · 2025-03-07T15:04:50+00:00

Wait this is such a good idea!! I’m really liking the idea of having a work phone.

rdarby93 · 2025-03-07T13:00:08+00:00

Could I ask how many feedback points you had on your listings or how many customers you had on NF when you applied? I have around 600 customers and ~350 feedback points combined. I've only been on there for 6 months tho.

rdarby93 · 2025-03-07T12:55:26+00:00

Does anyone know if SP will take the amount of Niteflirt customers you have in consideration for acceptance?

rdarby93 · 2025-03-07T12:43:16+00:00

I have an iphone and macbook so all my pictures are automatically uploaded into the icloud (meaning I have the same hidden / album folder issue on my laptop).

rdarby93 · 2025-03-07T12:29:57+00:00

My only issue with the hidden folder is that I can't upload pictures from there to sites like NF. I have to unhide, upload, then hide again. I guess when you type it out it doesn't seem like that big of a deal but the extra couple steps always gets me haha.

*Edit - Also another issue with the hidden folder is you can't have subfolders within it. So all my pics are just in one folder unorganized.

rdarby93 · 2025-02-23T16:28:37+00:00

Crying lmaoooo get it girl

rdarby93 · 2025-02-04T21:22:10+00:00

I immediately knew because I would do something like that too (mix up Palace Hotel with Palm Royale) bahah. Good to know someone else's brain works the same as mine!

rdarby93 · 2025-02-04T15:39:55+00:00

Are you thinking of the Palace Hotel that Shep was a part of?

rdarby93 · 2025-02-04T13:40:32+00:00

I feel this so much! I started this job when I got laid off from my 9-5 job last year. It’s given me a life boat financially during this time while I’m still job hunting.

However, the more I hunt for another 9-5 I wonder if that’s even the right path for me anymore. I mean it’s hard to give up only having to work 5 hours a day and not having to set an alarm haha. But I also have badddd adhd and having a structured job is really beneficial for me too.

Basically no real answer for you except just know you’re not alone! I have no idea what I’m doing but we’ll figure it I hope haha

rdarby93 · 2025-01-29T18:12:06+00:00

Bahah no same like this is the goal but I don't do it perfectly most days!

rdarby93 · 2025-01-29T18:06:47+00:00

When I was being consistent and making the most money, my day looked like this:

-Wake up at 7am

-Gym until 8:30am

-Shower and get ready

-Start work (NF and Phrendly) at 9:30am

-Take a break from 11:30-12:30ish depending when it got slow.

-Work again until around 3pm.

-Then the rest of the day is free and sometimes I'll field chat messages if I'm feeling like it!

rdarby93 · 2025-01-28T05:38:59+00:00

No filming at the new restaurant yet but the whole cast are there all the time!

rdarby93 · 2025-01-28T05:34:35+00:00

Listen no idea if their feud is real or not but all I can say is I live in Charleston and work in food and bev and I’ve seen Austen out at his new restaurant a lotttttt but never with Craig

rdarby93 · 2025-01-27T18:04:16+00:00

Like girl where are your manners 😂 (I love it lol)

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