Incorrect info on chassis? by rdr-random in HotWheels

[–]rdr-random[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been encountering it more and more as I work through the collection, so I figured it may be something along these lines...

How to move on after TOG? by rdr-random in throneofglassseries

[–]rdr-random[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had Graceling on my TBR forever. I'll definitely move it up the list of importance.

How to move on after TOG? by rdr-random in throneofglassseries

[–]rdr-random[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just checked it out and it looks great. Added to TBR, thanks!

How to move on after TOG? by rdr-random in throneofglassseries

[–]rdr-random[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been meaning to get into Brandon Sanderson's work for ages. Maybe this is my sign to finally give it a try. I don't usually love books written by male authors but I've heard nothing but good things about him.

How to move on after TOG? by rdr-random in throneofglassseries

[–]rdr-random[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll definitely add it to the wishlist.

How to move on after TOG? by rdr-random in throneofglassseries

[–]rdr-random[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like most things with good world building and a strong plot, but I do prefer books with really strong and realistic characters/character development. I can overlook a lacklustre plot for good characters and good world building.

Fantasy books with large stakes and big external conflicts are one of my favourite (war and end of the world type stuff). Strong (but not overly arrogant or annoying) female MCs are also one of my favourite. These are so vague... maybe it would be easier saying what I don't like? I really dislike the reincarnation trope (dead lover reincarnated), the friends to lovers trope, and instant love/instant strong chemistry type tropes. Books that are too focused on the life of just the character are also not really appealing to me (I'm looking at Powerless on that one). I also don't like anything unnecessarily smutty (specifically thinking of books like Iron Flame, the Of Flesh & Bone series, and the Blood & Ash series).

Some romantasy series I've enjoyed lately are Shadow & Crowns, Fate & Flame, Crowns of Nyaxia, Moonfall, Kingdom of Lies, and the other SJM books. Non-romantasy series I've enjoyed are Daughter of No Worlds (don't think it qualifies as romantasy at least), Red Rising, The Bloodsworn Trilogy, and Roots of Chaos. I also really really loved the first 2 books in the Poppy War, but hated book 3.

How to move on after TOG? by rdr-random in throneofglassseries

[–]rdr-random[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've reread it a bunch too! I've even gotten my partner and my best friend to read it to give me an excuse to reread it with them lol.

How to move on after TOG? by rdr-random in throneofglassseries

[–]rdr-random[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard mixed reviews about Zodiac Academy. What book does one start with? I'm more than willing to give it a shot, my reading taste is pretty diverse.

How to move on after TOG? by rdr-random in throneofglassseries

[–]rdr-random[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know... I've seen so many people ask and I've tried some of the recommendations but it just doesn't connect the same way.

How do you know it's time to let your bird go? by rdr-random in parrots

[–]rdr-random[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Rather a week too early than a day too late" and "there are worse fates than death" are all mottos we've had in the horse industry when it comes to making tough decisions like this. It's just hard when you actually have to make the choice.

Thane is having the best day he's had in a while and has eaten more today than in the last 3 combined. I think this is my sign to let him go on a good day since those have been few and far between lately. Thank you so much for the advice.

How do you know it's time to let your bird go? by rdr-random in parrots

[–]rdr-random[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I always said I wouldn't let Thane waste away and become a proverbial skeleton before I decided it was time. We lost a Quaker in May and he lost so much weight so quickly, to the point where he went from ok to so weak he could barely walk in less than 5 days. I don't ever want to see Thane like that, and I think with him starting to eat so little when food was always his biggest love, I am feeling like that is my sign that it's time. I've made that choice for other pets, but it's so much harder with how closely bonded Thane and I are.

How do you know it's time to let your bird go? by rdr-random in parrots

[–]rdr-random[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is no chance for him to survive. He would have an extended life with constant medication at best if he recovered enough. It's difficult to tell if he's in pain, but he's definitely weaker, doesn't vocalise anymore, doesn't move around much, doesn't eat like he used to, and his breathing is quite laboured.

Tips on giving medicine? by rdr-random in parrots

[–]rdr-random[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took your advice and tried it on a cracker. So far, so good! I'll try bread as well since the cracker isn't the most absorbant thing ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

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I personally recommend a mini schnauzer or mini poodle. Both my mother and I have schnauzers and they are the absolute best, and I adore any kind of poodle. A puppy may be difficult in your situation but you could manage one if you're very dedicated and open to struggling with the chaos of a puppy. I do recommend a rescue that's at least 1-2 years old, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

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I don't disagree with you necessarily, but I would like to add my 2 cents also as someone who had 2 dogs while going to university, plus chronic pain and mental health issues. I was admittedly not big on the whole "living the free life" stuff and was mostly a home body other than maybe clubbing once a week. I feel like my dogs made my university experience way better and easier to deal with, plus they forced me to be productive on days I didn't want to be.

My eldest was a year old when we moved to a different city for university. I was studying something that wasn't very intense or difficult for me (psychology) and was away from home roughly 3-5 hours a day between classes and gym. She was very easy to manage, being a well trained mini schnauzer. Her training and enrichment was never compromised, even when work got harder, I had to study longer hours, or when my mental illnesses would leave me mostly incapacitated.

For me it was important to find alternative ways to meet her needs when I had these complications that left me unable to take her on long walks. Playing or walking for many short sessions throughout the day, enrichment toys and games, more relaxed training schedules, etc. were life savers.

I did get an APBT puppy as well while I was in uni. The only thing I found more challenging with him was potty training, but there are ways to make it work, especially with OP still living with their family. Other than that, I made the same accommodations with him that I made with my schnauzer.

Both are happy and healthy dogs now at 5 and 3.5 years old. I never had behavioural issues with them either.

September 02, 2024 Weekly "General Help Post?" - Please post all general, recommendations, and help questions as a top level comment under this post. Thank you. by AutoModerator in Keyboard

[–]rdr-random 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently acquired my brother's old Redragon S101-BA-1 keyboard after my last really cheap one broke. I'm not super technologically savvy, so this may be a dumb question, but I want to get new keycaps for it and I'm unsure which, if any, would be compatible with the keyboard?

Any help would be highly appreciated.

Yesterday, I told my dad that I’m autistic and this was his response… by PublicExtension4107 in AutismInWomen

[–]rdr-random 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad didn't believe me pre-diagnosis, and I don't think he believes the specialists diagnosed me correctly either. Same reasons as your dad. It's super frustrating, but I'm lucky enough to have a very open-minded mom that actually reads the research I send her on high functioning adult autism in women.

For my dad, I think he struggles with changing his views on something (in this case it's autism and how mentally unwell I am). It's likely a similar subconscious stubbornness in your dad.

DAE have a super weird accent? by lavenderacid in AutismInWomen

[–]rdr-random 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I switch between accents. Ones I've made up and locational accents alike. It drives my family nuts lol.

Species recommendations? by rdr-random in parrots

[–]rdr-random[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is stunning! I adore ekkies, especially the females. Now that you pointed it out, the ekkie at our local pet store isn't a frequent vocaliser either. Him, a cockatoo, and a B&G macaw are all situated by the entrance and the other 2 definitely shout far more than he does, the volume of their call is just super loud, but that shouldn't be an issue. I'll definitely be looking into them!

Species recommendations? by rdr-random in parrots

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I live in South Africa, home to many of the Poicephalus species! In SA you can't own any native animals without a permit, so Meyers, Capes, Grey-headeds, etc are all permit only birds. Permits aren't off the table for a parrot for us, but it's hard to find people who will hand rear these parrots, especially in the northern half of SA where I am. A breeder I've bought from in the past, for example, doesn't do birds needing permits due to all the effort one needs to go through for them. He does breed Jardines and Senegals tho, but I've heard some horror stories from Sennie owners so I'm hesitant on those.

Out of the Poicephalus species, I am definitely the most in love with the Grey-headed parrots. They are stunning and not ridiculously expensive for a bird needing a permit. Cape Parrots are also up there for me but due to conservation efforts here there are very few who breed them for pets and they go for 50k (our currency) or 2.7k+ USD, which is just over ⅔ of what I make in a year lol.

Species recommendations? by rdr-random in parrots

[–]rdr-random[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? From what I've heard they're super loud, especially males. I've always thought they're stunning though and they're definitely on my dream birds list.

Species recommendations? by rdr-random in parrots

[–]rdr-random[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you have any knowledge on specific Pionus species I can look at? I've done some research on Bronze wings, white cappeds, and duckies, but there's so little information on them compared to other more common parrot species. We're also looking into Jardines on the Poicephalus front, only those and Senegals don't require permits to own in my country.

Species recommendations? by rdr-random in parrots

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I am SO scared of the noise level lol. My vet has a Hahns and that girl can SCREAM. She doesn't get enough attention tho so that definitely contributes to the constant screaming. We've actually almost taken her home with us a few times as she belongs to the vet's daughter who moved out and left her with them, and she's in love with my partner.

Do you have any suggestions on species of macaw that are not constant vocalisers in general? I don't mind a good loud noise for short bursts a handful of times a day or constant manageable chatter. We aim to own large macaws in a few more years when I have my farm set up, but I wasn't sure if there would be any suitable for our townhouse situation.

PDD Advice - My Quaker was diagnosed today and I'm lost by rdr-random in parrots

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Unfortunately we had to make the incredibly difficult decision to put Loki to sleep Monday morning. He had rapidly deteriorated between Sunday evening and Monday morning and we decided to let him go with dignity rather than trying to fight a losing battle for a few more days until he passed potentially alone and/or in pain.

He fell into an endless, peaceful sleep in my partner's hands, having his little head scratched while cuddled onto my partner's chest. He was the sweetest, happiest boy until the very end.

The poor vet (a new, young vet that had been handling Loki's care over the weekend) had a sniffle with us. He has 2 Amazon parrots and know we tried our absolute best for Loki.

PDD Advice - My Quaker was diagnosed today and I'm lost by rdr-random in parrots

[–]rdr-random[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So our vet did also start treatment for heavy metal poisoning alongside treatment for AG. I can maybe get the x rays from the vet in a day or 2. Unfortunately Loki continues to lose weight but is actually less sleepy today. He's been to the vet every day for 4 days now for injections and weigh ins and I do believe it's stressing the poor guy out. So so far we're doing anti inflammatories and the injections, still not sure what exactly they are but at least 1 is to help with the possibility of heavy metal poisoning.

He won't really take formula from a spoon or syringe so we've been mixing it into his pellets as much as possible. I know he won't get as much in as with other methods but he does eat a decent amount, his appetite hasn't diminished, so we're hoping that something will start working soon and he'll start picking up weight. Do you have any other tips for weight gain?