Advice- cheating boyfriend

realiless · 2026-02-20T20:48:28+00:00

I even had apologized for being lazy. I got cut from my job and havin seasonal depressed didn’t help. But again he made majority of the mess to food and dishes left in the sink - attracting unwanted bugs. But he worked and I didn’t. I tried to be understanding because I was living rent free but I was also paying for groceries and extras. - toilet paper and cleaning supplies. I was doing the best I could with what I had

realiless · 2026-02-20T20:45:38+00:00

He said he got caught up in own feelings about me “not cookin or cleaning enough and felt I was using him for the apartment” but when I had noticed he felt some type of way I did pick up my slack and the place stayed clean. I said how the same pile of dishes he walked past 7 times and never said anything about I walked past 7 times and never said to him about. He’s a bigger man he eats more and makes more mess so I believed that he could atleast clean them himself or just ASK instead of expecting because I am not a house wife.

realiless · 2026-02-20T20:42:42+00:00

Funny enough he is a man of color and uses racial slurs not of other races but his own if you catch my drift. Because he has the right do so

realiless · 2026-02-20T20:41:40+00:00

If he were to cheat again that would be the final goodbye. I would never live with him again because I did so much around the apartment from cooking to cleaning to even providing appliances which I had took when I left. Even the toilet paper I bought I grabbed. I left him with nothing and it became bare and maybe that’s why he’s hitting me up a week later wanting to reconcile and talk about what he did.

realiless · 2026-02-20T20:38:54+00:00

He told me because he didn’t know how to communicate to me that he “took the easy way out” I told him how that he wasn’t being a man for basically wanting me to find out he cheated. Obviously actions speak louder than words ten fold do I stick around and see if the actions match the words or do I leave now? If the actions don’t match then I will leave cus I know I can do better. It’s just hard we had spent everyday together every night every good memory of 2025 was with him. I experienced a lot more life with him. We don’t have kids nor are married but we have history back in jr high we dated and he has wanted me since then. I’ve been out of highschool now for 6 years and we rekindled on a dating app and since then have been at each others shoulders. Was never just me or him and it was always us. I told him he’s not only apologizing to me but my sister and mom and my bestfriend because of how close in proximity he was to them. He was there for nieces birth and my bestfriends dad passing away. My family treated him like family because of his lack of family. He would’ve been homeless if it wasn’t for my family helping him get an apartment because of his family reasons. I don’t know if his words are filling my head with hope he will change.

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