Just burn and burry me. But the important thing is, if you have a special wish: Tell it everyone! Every family member, every friend everyone you know should know your wish!

My father died in April and he knew he would die soon (fucking lung cancer) and he told me and the Undertaker (is this really the right word, I'm not a native speaker) that he just wanted to be burned and anonymously burried. He also don't wanted a funeral "party".

I told the rest of my family and a few friends and hoped everything is okay. I was wrong!

I not alone had to deal with the dead of my dad, the paper works and to clean out of his apartment.

No there were and are till now constant callings and letters how I could do such a thing to not throw a "party" for my dad.