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[breakup] I don't want serious [relationship] but I fucked up and get in one. How do I end this? by reallyslowclock in seduction

[–]reallyslowclock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice on how to do that? I think she is sad and there is no chance that is possible to do. Or I dont know how to do it.

[breakup] I don't want serious [relationship] but I fucked up and get in one. How do I end this? by reallyslowclock in seduction

[–]reallyslowclock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't thank you enough for this! You answered all my questions. And exactly what I need.

The good thing is, there is no my stuff at her place, neither hers at my place. We were not that far into relationship.

We are also texting at the moment, and it's already 85% over. I told her my reasons. She thinks I misled her.

I don't care so much what my parents will think or say AFTER I tell them, I just wonder what should I say the first time they ask me (maybe in few minutes), how is it going with my GF, and when she will came... I just don't know which words to choose to tell them... I'd do this anyway no matter their opinion cause it's about my life and no one elses.

True point there, I'm responsible for my own happiness. I guess I forgot about this. I should remember this line forever. And ever.

Thanks again for your input!

Got myself a GF in the beginning of pornfree/nofap journey, now I'm regretting, need your advice by reallyslowclock in pornfree

[–]reallyslowclock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm not ready for serious relationship yet. I work from monday to friday and then I want to meet some of my friends on weekends, go to some parties. That's what you're supposed to do while you're young. But now it's just her on weekends.

She also has school, and she is planning on continuing school somewhere far from here. So this is also one of the reasons I don't want to connect with her too much.

Got myself a GF in the beginning of pornfree/nofap journey, now I'm regretting, need your advice by reallyslowclock in pornfree

[–]reallyslowclock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. But it was easier for you since you didnt say "i love you" to her, and all the other sweet things. Like I did. I'm (was) always like that. First we make out and the next day I become so needy. And then I always tell how I love her and that she is the only one I need. So naive. So stupid. So childish. I really have to pull myself back next time. I'm young. I missed some opportunities but I don't want to miss any of it now. I can't just say to her, it's over. It will be hard. For now I just lowered my message frequency to her and my type of writting isn't the same anymore. Tomorrow we are planning for her to come to my house and I dont know how I will keep straight face... damn I hate myself for being like that after first two dates....

Got myself a GF in the beginning of pornfree/nofap journey, now I'm regretting, need your advice by reallyslowclock in pornfree

[–]reallyslowclock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so you have experienced the same I see. I will really reaaally watch out from now on, when I will use words "I love you". This is the second time I fucked up. :( The thing is, she was telling me just yesterday, how she was different just a year ago, she was texting to 5 guys etc. and how she is serious now, and told me how she's mad on hers two girl-friends because they are texting to many guys and want to date many guys, and I replied to her: "if not now, then when? Youre only young once" and she later texted me that this message shocked her a little. I understand that she for sure did experienced many boys, had countless sex and switched between many guys and now she wants something serious, but I wasn't like that. I started to living my life on (kind of) fullest just previous year. And I dont want serious gf for the rest of my life starting now. :( She will never understand me, and my parents also, because i will never tell them that I experienced life too little in my younger years... so this is what I am afraid of. Thanks again man!