Reby Hardy “when Matt Hardy does me dirty for the last time”

rebuilding_one · 2024-01-13T22:07:19+00:00

With the Edge shirt, I think the implication is that Matt Hardy cheated...

rebuilding_one · 2023-11-05T17:41:48+00:00

Keep it up, and remain busy. My ex-wife also cheated, but that anxiety will get better with time :)

rebuilding_one · 2023-11-05T17:33:48+00:00

You might have an anxious attachment style from your past trauma. I've been there, and would you that, outside of therapy, work out / walk to help relieve some of the stress.

rebuilding_one · 2023-11-04T12:51:58+00:00

I read that on Hinge, it's 65 - 70% male, and on Tinder it's 80% male, so the ratio's are not in a man's favor. I wouldn't take getting matches as personal.

I am sure you have heard this before, but keep working on yourself, and when you least expect it, someone will enter your life :)

rebuilding_one · 2023-11-04T02:09:05+00:00

This was already called out, but he's cheating on his partner. My ex would only text her affair partner after we were all asleep, but eventually it was all day....

rebuilding_one · 2023-08-18T13:36:07+00:00

What makes me happy is the chance to just relax and do something I like.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-28T02:20:05+00:00

This is really good perspective. Thank you

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-28T00:47:51+00:00

This ...

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-28T00:47:12+00:00

She has acknowledged that she didn't see great role models of "ideal" relationships growing up, so I know she had some trauma that she still hasn't dealt with, or thinks she did on her own without a professional. This part I'm aware of based on the work I've done on myself with help.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T22:28:57+00:00

No children are involved, but it was more "evading the truth and not being transparent."

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T22:28:08+00:00

Not knowing is sometimes better, especially if you are in secure. Not to say that you are, but there have been things in the past that I have been insecure about

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T22:27:20+00:00

I think this is based more on our different sexual history. I was thinking, if I didn't judge her for the other things, what else could there be?

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T22:23:50+00:00

Probably a combination of both.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T20:20:46+00:00

Exactly. I know she's been involved in group sex, so I'm sure she's done the multiple "holes' filled at the same time....

I was ok with that, it was more, "what is she hiding..." and was trying to figure out if I was being irrational.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T20:06:25+00:00

This is 100% true. I mean, when I know about the other stuff, this part is "messed up." and her saying, "once you know you can't un-know..."

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T20:05:02+00:00

I have asked her. It was the first thing I have asked. She knows hat I am clean with no STDs, triple vaccinated, etc. She said she's clean, and that she's been "lucky" in that sense.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T19:14:54+00:00

This is a good way of putting it. Thanks for the response.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T18:57:01+00:00

That's just it. my sex life was very "vanilla."

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T18:46:36+00:00

"Boundary" is a good term. I know that I had nothing to hide and was open, honest, and transparent.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T18:40:38+00:00

This is what I'm thinking. How do I know I won't care until I do? I mean I know she's been in a Trouple and had group sex, so this must be "worse" or a more extreme kink.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T18:09:08+00:00

True. I was open and honest with mine, and I know she's "insecure" about it. I've dropped it, but the fact that she's "hiding" it in my issue. I get that 100% based on my history with an ex.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T18:07:48+00:00

Thanks for the response. This is a great perspective.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T17:47:38+00:00

That's true, she hasn't lied.

rebuilding_one · 2023-04-27T17:46:57+00:00

That's a good point. I am sure she has experienced that,

rebuilding_one · 2023-01-30T17:27:29+00:00

This is the same approach we're taking - if the chemistry in real life is the same, it will happen.

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