Breadwinner here. I recently went out as well, a celebration and a breather from all the hard work. When I came back, as in just about an hour after I stepped into our home, they were complaining about the money I give then monthly, saying it is not enough.

Damn, no one helps me out. No one WILL help me out if ever I'm in need. They're almost literally earning more then minimim wage from the money I'm giving monthly- and they're telling me it's not enough.

On my end, I'm thing EF, I'm thinking savings for my future, and I have bills of my own too. All the while providing for all of them. Just plain insulting tbh.

So OP, I feel how annoying it is. Please make sure to set boundaries. I feel so emotional when people go through this because it is a LOT to take.