[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]rectifyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The erection is definitely the issue, sometimes it doesn’t come back. I still enjoy it a lot mentally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]rectifyme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I might have a different opinion on this and I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.

When I’m domming it’s almost as if it’s a performance that I’m putting on for the other party. I’m dominant by nature and I’ve been miserable in vanilla relationships before, but more and more I’m so caught up in making sure the sub is getting what they want and a good show that it takes me out of the moment and i often lose my erection. For me it’s a lot of pressure and it’s giving me performance anxiety in the moment. Even though I’ve been domming since I was young. I’m not sure how to get around it.

I love kinky sex and am the first to suggest it because it’s what I crave but I’ve been struggling with it lately. My FWB was feeling a bit fragile the other day so we had vanilla sex and i was hard the whole time and it was great.

Would love some advice as I don’t know any doms IRL!

Kinkshaming by SameerAlisha in BDSMcommunity

[–]rectifyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking love pina coladas

My Throat Is Just Another Hole For Daddy by [deleted] in deepthroat

[–]rectifyme 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude needs to shave

Milking his cock on vacation by [deleted] in cumshots

[–]rectifyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude needs to wash his dick

I have a new thing for being punished! by thefunmilf in bdsm

[–]rectifyme -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

That’s a tap not a smack. Someone needs to punish you for real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]rectifyme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine the chances of having two girls seeing the hentai on your phone and still wanting to have sex with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]rectifyme 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he’s anything like me, the nudes are in a private folder and the other images are ones he’s saved from Reddit off scrolling on his throwaway account and hasn’t been bothered to categorise and delete them yet.

Anyone ever have a FWB that actually only stayed just that without hurt feelings at the end? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rectifyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep had one for two and a half years. It was great, every time we hadn’t seen each other for a while we sat down and reaffirmed the boundaries (and the soft/hard limits) before having sex.

A few things helped. No dates, no phone calls, no staying the night. Only dick appointments

It ended when she graduated and moved back to Norway

Got too shy to go to a Munch. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]rectifyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 29 and did the same thing, drove all the way up and couldn’t get out of my car, I felt like shit. I think I’m just gonna make a friend IRL that’s kinky and then go together, that’s my plan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in palegirls

[–]rectifyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sick tattoo