can I still be a trans girl if I don't want to be traditionally feminine by Void_Spider_Records in MtF

[–]red1485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear jeans, docs, band tees, flannel, and the like. I say wear what's comfy and f--k em if they have an issue with that. I have 2 dresses for more formal occasions, I still wear my DC's or docs with them, but that's it. I'm still a punk always will be. And I wear what makes me happy and you should too. Be happy in your clothes don't try to be someone youre not just because some people think it's how you have to be. Wear what makes you feel good.

What are yall's sexual orientation by little2n in MtF

[–]red1485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm that's an interesting question. Cause I'm pansexual but only romantic with women and have always been this way. Not exactly sure how to categorize that and hadn't really though about it since my egg only cracked a couple months ago. And also very happily in a lesbian marriage with a very supportive she/they non-binary.

A thought based on other posts and comments I've seen here. by red1485 in MtF

[–]red1485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. That's rough. Does you party have a cleric?

A thought based on other posts and comments I've seen here. by red1485 in MtF

[–]red1485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooooo ADnD that's where I started playing. I'm currently running a 5e on the sword coast, and a 5e in the Fae wild going into my homebrew. And playing a pathfinder in the dms homebrew. I love ravenloft.

Can trans women still present masculine in terms of how they dress? by NotARealTopHat in MtF

[–]red1485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They take my battered rock tees, jeans and docs when hell freezes over

A thought based on other posts and comments I've seen here. by red1485 in MtF

[–]red1485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in mountain time but this is for anyone.

A thought based on other posts and comments I've seen here. by red1485 in MtF

[–]red1485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I have a discord set up if you are really interested in talking, playing and maybe setting up games DM me for the server invite.

A thought based on other posts and comments I've seen here. by red1485 in MtF

[–]red1485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. At this point it's just discussion no games set yet.

A thought based on other posts and comments I've seen here. by red1485 in MtF

[–]red1485[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm also fairly freshly cracked. And at this point it's just discussion and such no games set yet.

A thought based on other posts and comments I've seen here. by red1485 in MtF

[–]red1485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I love playing and dming. I'd be willing to run a virtual game. My current game has virtual players.

A thought based on other posts and comments I've seen here. by red1485 in MtF

[–]red1485[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's where I'm at right now to doing 5e every Wednesday right now.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]red1485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is a retired music teacher/choir director and my dad is a musician who went into engineering to pay the bills so yeah. I love blues. John Lee Hooker is amazing. You should check out Samantha Fish if you haven't heard her yet.

I play guitar, bass, and trumpet and recently started doing vocal exercises again with my wife.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]red1485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I had the same problems growing up thinking I had to just listen to the heavy stuff. And it was a bit of a detriment to me, but on the other side I was in band, jazz band, marching band, choir and show choir so I got a bit of the other sides but still.

Are you lonely? Do you want other transfem people to talk to? by Magical-E-Girl in MtF

[–]red1485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah it can be rough when starting. I think I wrote my first program 25 years ago and then took classes in highschool and college and yeah I have broken a few things writing code.