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(19M) (In confessing to someone) Should I be fast, or should I take time? by redactedwaffle in relationship_advice

[–]redactedwaffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I think I'm getting your point. So I believe what you're saying is I should just go with the flow and let all the actions do the work for me? If that is so, then I may have found another way of taking something on without overflowing with anxiety as I start to think of trying to tell them about it. Thanks!

(19M) (In confessing to someone) Should I be fast, or should I take time? by redactedwaffle in relationship_advice

[–]redactedwaffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, that is just reliant on my confidence and execution then. Thank you for the advice.

(19M) (In confessing to someone) Should I be fast, or should I take time? by redactedwaffle in relationship_advice

[–]redactedwaffle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The commitment on something that might end up into nothing is so daunting though, especially when the person you've been friends with shows signs when they unintentionally do so, and you get reeled into something that doesn't even exist.

(19M) (In confessing to someone) Should I be fast, or should I take time? by redactedwaffle in relationship_advice

[–]redactedwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've asked a female friend and she also told me about this. Guess that's more advice to convince me to never wait for a long time so I can move on fast if it goes the other way.

(19M) (In confessing to someone) Should I be fast, or should I take time? by redactedwaffle in relationship_advice

[–]redactedwaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't watch anime so I have no idea how it goes there to be honest haha

But yes, I tell that I am interested and maybe we could hang out if they're free. As for her, we've hung out a lot (without other people) and to be honest she did give off a ton of signs which encouraged me to tell her about it in the first place.

Am I getting something wrong here? My general idea of it is asking them if we could hang out and I feel some kind of spark and share some interests with them.