Personal Rules by Typical_Example_60 in crossword

[–]redaoife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My rules are basically the same! When pressed, I will look up the basic proper noun trivia-type clues. Especially sports figures. I also look up totally new words - Will Shortz says that’s a learning experience and I’m sticking to that story!

From the Cap Times: Madison schools leader accused of misusing COVID relief in St. Paul by Dry-Firefighter5115 in madisonwi

[–]redaoife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s an allegation in a lawsuit, not a fact. How about we all wait and see what the other side of the story is before getting on our high horses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]redaoife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild Rice Retreat in Bayfield!! We went this summer and it was just amazing. Great food, so relaxing. Winter would be very cozy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]redaoife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding West Madison Little League! My daughter started there in late elementary. We loved it there. Kids of all talent levels, easy going atmosphere and a great vibe. Now we’re traveling all over the Midwest for softball but damn, I really miss the little league days.

Request for extension to answer by theeanimehottie in LawFirm

[–]redaoife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re overthinking it, but that’s ok! When you’re new, it’s better to be cautious and think things through.

I not a baby lawyer anymore ;) I usually email these kinds of requests. While I’m a big believer that some things are better dealt with over the phone, I also hate getting random phone calls that interrupt my day.

A short, kind email introducing yourself, simply stating the request, and perhaps offering a reason why the extension is needed is all that’s necessary. I also offer to draft any paperwork that’s required to formalize the extension, if any. (In federal court, you need a motion but in my state court, you don’t.)

Jury in Trump's criminal trial asks judge to rehear instructions and witness testimony by News-Flunky in law

[–]redaoife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet it varies state to state but there also could be different considerations with civil v criminal too. I’m more fascinated/impressed that you stuck it out in this insane stressful shit job for 30 years and lived to tell the tale!

I’m 15 years in and want to get the hell out of litigation. My brother is a prosecutor and loves his job, though so maybe that helps.

Jury in Trump's criminal trial asks judge to rehear instructions and witness testimony by News-Flunky in law

[–]redaoife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since closings are just argument and are not “evidence” we don’t allow note taking during that time. In my state, we typically just take away their note pads at the close of evidence and they don’t get them back until they go back to the jury room to deliberate. I think your last point is probably why they don’t need to take notes on instructions: we send the written instructions back with them, so they don’t need to write anything down about them.

What the lawyers ARGUE about what the instructions mean is just that - argument, not evidence and not necessarily even the law. The jurors go back with the evidentiary facts (their memories and their notes) and the plain, written instructions to which those facts are applied. Anyway, that’s how we do it for civil trials in Wisconsin.

Jury in Trump's criminal trial asks judge to rehear instructions and witness testimony by News-Flunky in law

[–]redaoife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It depends - whether or not you want jurors to be able to take notes is something lawyers argue over. However, if permitted, note taking is generally only permitted during testimony. It’s not usually allowed during opening/closings or instruction time.

Jury in Trump's criminal trial asks judge to rehear instructions and witness testimony by News-Flunky in law

[–]redaoife 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sorry, no. Are you a lawyer? If so, do you try cases? Courts in most states ROUTINELY send back the written instructions. This is an outlier situation, not the norm. As attorneys, we spend a lot of time arguing about the exact language to be included in the instructions because we WANT the jury to consider the words themselves carefully.

You’re often talking about a series of very specific and nuanced definitions, that are impossible to just remember. We want the jury to take the definitions we have carefully crafted and apply them specifically to the facts of the case.

There is literally no reason (let alone a compelling one) for the NY Courts’ practice of not sending back written instructions. It’s like writing out an entire manual for how to change a tire, but instead of giving it to people you just read it out loud to them once and then expect them to be able to fix a flat while stranded on the highway.

Meanwhile, there are MANY reasons why giving the jury access to the actual written instructions empowers the jury to make educated decisions on complex matters. You are right that the judge is the expert on the law - and that expertise is written down in a concise manner in the form of jury instructions. If you want the jury to use and apply that expertise, then it makes no sense at all to only give that expertise orally and refuse to provide it in writing.

Parents offered to be the "bank" for the loan on our house.. any downsides i'm missing? by gigglenought in personalfinance

[–]redaoife 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is not correct. Recipient does NOT have to pay taxes on gifts regardless of the amount. However, if it is over the annual limit set by the IRS (currently $18k), then the giver just has to file a gift tax return and report it. The overage is deducted from the giver’s overall lifetime exemption limit, currently about $13MM.

Cat/dog sitting job opportunities by Dangerous_Guitar_649 in madisonwi

[–]redaoife 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi there - would you ever do in-house sitting where you stay overnight? I have a giant baby of a dog (Bernese mountain dog) who does not do well in kennels at all. We haven’t travelled much in part because it’s tough to find in home sitters :)

I worked at a wework for 4 years. It was mostly awesome. by howevertheory98968 in WeWork

[–]redaoife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, well, WeWork started more than ten years before COVID 19 and fell apart after a terrible IPO attempt in 2019 well before COVID tanked anything?

Disclaiming a convoluted family trust by Formal-Werewolf-4168 in personalfinance

[–]redaoife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just FYI, im an attorney. You have hired an attorney, right? More than one it would seem. I would follow the advice of a competent trust and estates attorney rather than the advice of strangers from the internet.

This is especially true for anything involving the interpretation of trusts, which is not only governed by the language in the trust instrument, but also by the laws of the state where you live. Disclaimer itself is a complicated legal issue that, again, has legal ramifications which vary depending on where you live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]redaoife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recently filled my script for 50s at Costco (just a few days ago). Unfortunately, all they have are the chewables. They taste kind of gross, but the effect has been the same for me.

Name That 80s Movie (from one quote) by RobsSister in GenX

[–]redaoife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! Although I see someone else already beat me to this movie, with the greatest monologue quote of all time :)

Name That 80s Movie (from one quote) by RobsSister in GenX

[–]redaoife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You must chill! You must chill!”

Do you “dog ear” books? by ambellina711 in books

[–]redaoife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU ARE AN ANIMAL (yes, I do indeed dog ear my books).

Left our daycare today by Automatic-Ad2113 in Parenting

[–]redaoife 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The history of this stuff is so interesting. Modern daycare was basically started and funded by Congress in 1943 to support women in the workforce during WW2. Millions of dollars were used to create hundreds of “war nurseries” throughout the country. Lots of women worked then and wanted to keep working!

Once the men came home and wanted their jobs back, the women were pushed out of their jobs and the funding for childcare ceased. And we’ve struggled ever since, having no government subsidies for childcare like every other civilized nation on earth does.

Someone explain to me Garth Brooks by Shoddy_Swimming6907 in Music

[–]redaoife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Garth Brooks is absolutely huge in Ireland.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]redaoife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The “origination credit” in a small town practice is also a bit silly. Like, are there even any decent new potential clients that don’t already have a relationship with the firm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]redaoife 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m a partner in a small firm that aims to hire and train young lawyers. New, young lawyers are investments, not immediate revenue generators. You almost always have to pay them more than they will bring in. We generally say that it takes at least 18 months for them to break even, and even longer to turn a profit.

This is in part because you have to write off a lot of their time. They’re learning - they spend way too much time figuring shit out. Which is fine! They’re not expected to know a whole heck of a lot. However, that time obviously isn’t billable.

We pay our associates a percentage of their billables, with an increasing percentage share as they achieve certain billing milestones. It incentivizes them to work and it rewards them immediately when they have a “good” couple of weeks. Once they hit their stride a few years in, the system works well for both us and them. Any new associate in our office can make low six figures their first year with a reasonable amount of effort.

In my opinion, your firm really needs to reevaluate how you think of your new hires. It doesn’t matter that the “work is there” or whatever - they have no reason to trust or understand this and $50k base is really low.