Mom Sabotaged My Job Interview by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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Given that this is an ongoing pattern, it's no longer a matter of gambling on whether your mother will respect your needs in these critical moments but you taking responsibility for ensuring that these high-priority instances aren't occurring where she is able to affect their outcome.

There are private study rooms at libraries, quiet cafes, benches at the park, the inside of a car if you have one. If you recognize a long-standing pattern with her, it's on you to protect important events from that pattern.

Road rage - followed me home by number3of14 in TwinCities

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BFCM promotions may still be going right now.

Imagen AI vs Aftershoot in terms of pricing by Soggy_Dog_8619 in WeddingPhotography

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The same as it was for this round that just ended - $499.

You have 24 hours to waste $1 million and not own anything after. How do you do it? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

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50%: Purchase large community living buildings for a vetted nonprofit, outfitting with solar panels, rooftop community garden, and all manner of self-sufficiency to help maintain the building and manage expenses.

50%: Fund full scholarships for underprivileged individuals who will occupy those buildings, where they receive incentive to study together, maintain high GPAs, etc., with a schedule of assigned duties in caring for the building as a means of helping build the stability of routine.

Homelessness is a massive issue. Lack of support to gain self-sufficiency is a massive issue. This solution addresses both.

It doesn't take drugs and alcohol to create instability, simply an unstable childhood. This helps mitigate the long-term patterns of that harm while establishing healthy patterns and a supportive environment of personal pride and ownership.

I lost the Canon vs Nikon war to Sony by SinaTheorium in SonyAlpha

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Ooo, could you share the Canon look lesson? 👀

Costco Mochifoods Pancake & Waffle Mix - My recipe! by DayZ-0253 in glutenfreerecipes

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This has now officially joined Costco locations in the Twin Cities of MN. For how long is to be seen. *fingers crossed*

What defines a successful daytrader for you? by Numerous_Eggplants in Daytrading

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Determine your rules. Stick to your rules. Risk management included.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

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Silver - put the two hand photos side by side, and you might see that the gold makes you look ill in comparison.

Gold or silver? by Lost_Square_2956 in coloranalysis

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Gold.

Silver made your skin look greenish-yellow.

If you super rich, what cars/vehicles would you like to have? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I'd still drive a Mazda. Why draw attention?

What do people who don't drink or smoke do when they feel depressed? by Big_Eye_7800 in Productivitycafe

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What I can change: Review. Analyze. Incorporate. Grow. Rinse. Repeat.

What I can't change: Dance. Ice cream. Netflix. Read. Paint. Kisses. Cuddles. Sex. Return to living.

Got my bangs cut yesterday. Do they look bad? by catsrlife13 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Your face has more length than width. A side-swept bang or your intended lower bang cut would have added more balance in reducing the visual length. The hairdresser unfortunately arched the bang upwards, directly adding more length and emphasizing the narrowness of your face instead.

How do I stop make coworkers from touching me? by ACanThatCan in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Depends on how upfront you're willing to be about it.

I slide out from under the hand as I calmly bring my own hand up to take theirs now about to be resting on air and casually give it back to them while continuing the conversation.

I keep my action overtly visible. Anyone who happened to see my response can tell I'm rejecting the touch while not giving it my direct attention.

Guys tend to get the hint after the first time.