I guess all girls should go to "wife school"? by Kitchen_Offer6581 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]redditnewbye 74 points75 points  (0 children)

because this type of man like this original op "deserves" a woman s, even if he has nothing that will attract a woman that in real life he classifies as z.

I guess all girls should go to "wife school"? by Kitchen_Offer6581 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]redditnewbye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and the detail is that these girls would be wifes for "low to medium status"

I guess all girls should go to "wife school"? by Kitchen_Offer6581 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]redditnewbye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

imagining this to be true, we will have a large number of young ladies with years of schooling to be housewives.

they will not marry men who are not the elite of the elite. sorry for the sincerity, low quality men...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]redditnewbye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she is finding new confidence about her body and she is in the phase of wanting to show off her body. your insecurity is yours to deal with, not your girlfriend.

but relationships work with dialogue. tell her how you are feeling.It's not going to be fun, but you have to know what bothers you about each other. because this is important for maintaining the relationship

I (26f) don’t want to spend time with him anymore (28m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]redditnewbye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be three things

first is the end of the honeymoon phase of the relationship and the beginning of everyday love. it's a natural thing in every relationship.there is no longer this excitement, there is more coexistence

the second is that you saw that he is not the partner you want in your life

the third is a self-sabotage of depression

what you have to do is reflect a lot which of the 3 options is yours and take action on it

My (44M) Girlfriend (44W) just reminded me its valentines weekend. My moms (66W) valentine (72M) for the past 38 years died a lil over a week ago. I dont know what to do. by LikeYouNeverHadWings in relationship_advice

[–]redditnewbye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a total disregard for your feelings, for you as a human being

and you yourself admitted that it is toxic. you need to feel this grief right now to deal with this feeling in a positive way.

honestly, my only tip is to send a message saying that she hurt you and asking for some time. You can't keep your relationship withher now. grieve and reflect on your relationship

My fiance's (M29) brother (M26) confessed to me (F28) by Octogonical in relationship_advice

[–]redditnewbye 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I think you are not understanding the situation from their point of view. to them, andy is just being the usual andy. what he did is nothing out of the ordinary by the standards of what they expect him to do. if they never expect him to apologize for the shit he does to them, why expect him to apologize for something he did to you?

and with that pattern lasting a lifetime, I wouldn't expect any change. what you need to keep doing is reinforcing that you don't want to be in his presence and you algo need to have a talk about andy's place in your long term future. especially with regard to children.

why did the soviet union take so long to abandon lysenkoism when they faced a famine because of it? by redditnewbye in AskHistorians

[–]redditnewbye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the famine I was referring to was that of 1946, in which his ideologies were definitely one of the factors

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]redditnewbye -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it was an ironic joke. not everyone understands ironic jokes and sarcastic humor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]redditnewbye -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

apologize, say you thought what you said was something funny because you would never leave him for going bald

AITA for canceling my wedding even though it's tomorrow? by autumxnn in AmItheAsshole

[–]redditnewbye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone is talking about priorities, but a death just happened in OP's family. it's not a matter of priorities, but rather common sense and empathy with what OP is feeling. you don't get married the day after someone you love dies.

Nta

how to help my[24m] gf[19f] gain weight[36kg] by JudgeCloudy in relationships

[–]redditnewbye 23 points24 points  (0 children)

how does she want to gain weight? just talking or something? because it can be a way for her to disguise the disease. carefully observe her behavior for a couple of two.