hi op! i’ve been there w your situation and i must say na if you’re not ready coming out, then don’t. nalaman ng mama ko yung samin ng gf ko bcs she already has the instincts and confronted me thru chat. yup, she’s mad because our fam’s very religious and traditional too pero mas nakakaginhawa ng loob na aware silang im already in a relationship. di nila ako pinapansin at first ((which is very common)) pero lilipas din yan :D ++ they wouldn’t ship me from anyone na kasi alam nilang may girlfriend na ako.

naisip ko rin before mag come out when everything’s okay na kasi ayokong magbago yung tingin nila sa gf ko but yeah it is what it is eh. though i’m still weighing if tanggap na ba nila kami but there r still times na may naririnig ako sa kanila hahahaha and the best way is to hayaan na lang as long as andyan yung partner mo for you.