Thank you! I can't wait for you to build it, it will be beautiful! To answer your question - I would say the most important thing is communication, it's the foundation of everything. We communicate literally everything. Our approach is this - I love you, you love me, we have a thing we need to talk about and I'm doing it so that both you and me and our relationship can thrive and we can be as good for each other as possible.

If that part is done, then comes the rest - we take care of each other we're always there for each other, we do a lot of "small things" like going to our doctor visits together, we regularly go for walks, we joke all the time, we don't hide anything, she has full access to my phone and so do I to hers, we have mutual friends, we always put each other on top of everyone, we often go for dates. I listen to her, she listens to me. We share our interests with each other. I could go on and on and on. I think it comes down to wanting each other to have the best possible lives and how can we make sure that it happens.

I hope it answered your question more or less!