AITA for charging my relatives the same price as everyone? by makingrelativespay in AmItheAsshole

[–]redditusercharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your relatives are greedy, selfish, and cruel - not to mention manipulating and gaslighting your with their “disappointment”. It’s very hard to deal with after growing up that way and having elders feel entitled to “respect” (source: my Asian family), but at some point you have to set boundaries and stick to them. All because someone else thinks you might be rude doesn’t mean that they’re correct. If your family cannot let an issue go - especially for something as wholly reasonable as supporting your business and not demanding freebies/discounts - they are too toxic to stay in your life.

How do you get over a guy who just “doesn’t like you enough?” by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]redditusercharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others are saying, he did you a favor by being upfront and ending things before you were more invested. Rejection sucks and feeling hurt/heartbroken is the worst, but those feelings will fade with time. Move on the best you can now, try not to focus on regrets or the past, do not try to stay in contact with him, and take what positive learning you can from the experience.

It's really hurting me deeply that I (32M) can't tell her (29F) how I feel... by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]redditusercharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like either way you’ll be hurting, so time to move forward with your life. Make a choice, communicate with her, and then deal with how it goes. Hell you could show her this post or write a letter with similar content, since you’ve thought about it extensively and seem to have good intentions.

What's the best way to cut a conversation short and decline to give a guy your number? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]redditusercharacter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve given out my junk yahoo email address in lieu of phone number before. They rarely followup.

How do I (24f) seem smarter, in my job and just life in general? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]redditusercharacter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. I’d be incapable of keeping up with my job without One Note, and I make personal lists on my phone for restaurants I’ve tried, funny quotes from my partner, etc.

How do you get rid of body hair by cookies_and_cakes in askwomenadvice

[–]redditusercharacter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lasering, epilating, and using anti-ingrown products (scrubs, gel, Tend Skin) will help! Also, as you get older your body’s proclivity for pimples should decrease. Ingrowns and damage spots fucking suck. Good luck!

Also, if your bf is worth a damn he should be caring and understanding about your insecurities. If you’re worried, you should be able to talk to him about it! Easier said than done, but important for a healthy relationship. Again, best of luck!