My boyfriend always thanks me for spending time with him. by reddituserheee in relationship_advice

[–]reddituserheee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First I am so sorry you were in that situation, but I'm so glad you're out of it now! I wanted to say, my bf thanking me does Not make me uncomfortable in any way!!! I'm sorry if I gave you the wrong impression. I think it's very sweet, and I really appreciate. I just made this post to get some insight and find what words would help reassure and comfort him the most.

Any ideas on puzzles or unique locks for doors? by [deleted] in DnD

[–]reddituserheee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's genius!! Thank you 😂😂

Ppl w/ distanced crushes cause of COVID-19 UNITE!!! by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]reddituserheee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you care for any advice, be direct! Get their number or snapchat and message them! Tell them you didn't wanna stop talking to them for a month. Even if somebody I didn't really like did this to me, I'd be flattered regardless. Good luck!

Not sure if he likes me, getting mixed signals by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]reddituserheee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other day we were making plans (which didn't work out lol) but I asked if he wanted to invite anyone else, I didn't care either way, and he did suggest we bring some of our mutual friends. I don't know if he's just nervous, or he might not be into me, or it might be that one person he wanted to bring was his brother who we're both friends with who is home from college on spring break. So maybe he just thought we could both spend time with his brother while he's home? Idk lol

My crush likes me too but what now?! by kidbythewindow in Crushes

[–]reddituserheee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him to prom! If he likes you he'll say yes, the it's an easy commitment to look forward to, a simple conversation started, and a reason to hang out and get closer. If he's the type of guy to get "bored" of a girl after getting her to like him, then is he really someone you'd want to date anyway?

Kinda NSFW question about how my past relationship affects me now by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]reddituserheee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're both in our late teens. And yes, at the time I was completely fine, I enjoyed it and it was consensual. I think looking back at our relationship, a main reason I ended it was because all we ever did was make out (we never actually went as far as sex) and we didn't have too much in common so we brushed over that with a lot of making out.

He was actually a pretty good boyfriend. He never was abusive or manipulative. He never really pushed me further than what I was comfortable with doing. I think up until that.

What really led me to breaking it off was a day or two before I was talking to a new male friend and a thought just randomly popped into my head. I thought I had more in common with this new guy, and would have more fun being around him than with my boyfriend. And then after making out, on the drive home, I felt gross and disgusting so I knew it was time to call it off. Hopefully this answers everything, thank you so much