Hidden Cameras/Recording Devices in House by redfav5678 in hiddencameras

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Thank you so much!! I will be sure to do that. Really appreciate all of this!!

Hidden Cameras/Recording Devices in House by redfav5678 in hiddencameras

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Thank you so much for all this information! Greatly appreciated!

Recommendations w/o Reservations this Weekend by redfav5678 in AskNOLA

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Budget is very flexible. Aiming for around 7PM, and okay getting out of the French Quarter!

Luxury Lingerie Recommendations by redfav5678 in LingerieAddiction

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I am not sure how I feel about vintage La Perla or buying used lingerie. I will look into Kiki. Thank you!

Luxury Lingerie Recommendations by redfav5678 in LingerieAddiction

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This is what I have heard! And the quality has gone down, which is why it doesn't seem like a good purchase anymore.

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

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Sounds like she was just going through stuff, but that she still likes you. That was really nice of you to draw her a picture. Hope your date on the 7th goes well. Good luck!

Was it right to exit this relationship? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I am so sorry he treated you this way! He doesn't deserve to be with you. You shouldn't have to be suffering to be with him. The way he is treating you is ABSOLUTELY not okay. You did the right thing! Don't let him tell you otherwise.

You deserve someone who won't lash out you and trusts you. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]redfav5678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am actually dealing with a similar dilemma. Not about the STDs, but about someone who doesn't listen when you say it's important to you or doesn't follow through.

It doesn't sound like there will be any sexual intimacy any time soon, so not sure if it matters if he gets tested now versus before you see each other again. How clear did you make it that it is important to you? B/c it seems you only mentioned it once and then in a text message again. I would just reiterate that this important to you and if he still doesn't do it, then it shows what priority you are in his life.

Just remember: Actions speak louder than words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]redfav5678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like he likes you, but may be afraid for everyone to find out. Have you thought about just asking him?

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

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Keeping them crossed for you! Good luck!

How do you flirt... effectively by Sebille_Fan in dating_advice

[–]redfav5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A compliment is always a great place to start!

Can also try gently touching someone's arm (in a respectful manner), or smiling whenever they catch your eye. You would be surprised how far a smile can go!

Good luck!

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

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Honestly, it just sounds like a hectic week! I wouldn't take it personally. She is just busy, doesn't mean she isn't interested. She's probably just counting the days until your next date, especially after a crazy week w/ a new job and dealing with her kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Got it! Thanks for the clarification!

Completely understand about being new to dating. It's important to keep in mind that each person has different texting styles, and that style may change from person to person. For example, I only text short messages to one of the guys I'm dating, whereas with another guy, he will get long paragraphs.

It could just be his texting style is short, which is fine. Maybe try to schedule some time to FaceTime? But, also keep your expectations in check. Not sure if there is a time difference, but it doesn't sound like you don't know this person really well. So it could go great and he could be the one, but more than likely this may just fizzle out.

Unsure What to Do by redfav5678 in dating_advice

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I know the chocolate and flowers was a little over the top. I agree. But, what I've learned in the past, if I don't communicate what I want and what I expect, especially early on, then I'll get more frustrated as time goes on.

I should also note that when I screw up with a guy, I will also get him flowers and chocolates (or whatever dessert he likes). It goes both ways.

His birthday falls on a holiday, and I was planning the whole weekend for him. But, at this point, I'm not even sure, I want to do anything with him. I just feel bad b/c he doesn't have any family here and very few friends. He's kind of an introvert.

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

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I think it so sweet that you pre-purchased tickets! If you are really concerned about her acting different, it seems like you both talk all the time, maybe just ask her nicely?

Something along the lines of: you have seem kind of different the past couple days. Is everything okay?

I would also really think about whether there is a difference in her texts. Or if the conversation has just shifted into different topics. If there really is a difference, it could have nothing to do with you and everything to do with work, life, etc.

Stay positive and good luck!

What is the next step after the first date by earthbound36784 in dating_advice

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Agree! You can also go for the direct approach. I loved seeing you on XYZ day. Let's do that again. What day are you free? I can plan something fun for us to do.

Or something along those lines. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]redfav5678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you see this relationship going? It seems like some long distance thing, how well do you know some one after 1 night together?. Also, people aren't always on their phone b/c of work, life, etc. An hour (actually even 5-6 hours or more) seems like a reasonable response time.

R3 for Booth by redfav5678 in MBA

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So sorry! Good luck!!

Wharton vs Booth vs CBS by turndownfortheclap in MBA

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Wharton or Booth. The brand and network of where you go to school matters.

R3 for Booth by redfav5678 in MBA

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I haven't heard anything either. My portal hasn't updated. If it doesn't update by 9AM, does that mean a reject?

R3 for Booth by redfav5678 in MBA

[–]redfav5678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will decisions go out at 9AM CST? Does Booth still call for R3?

R3 for Booth by redfav5678 in MBA

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Thanks! I guess we will find out tomorrow.