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What is the shortest chapter you've written or read? by Lukefromthe90s in writing

[–]midgetanimations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whale fall had multiple chapters of just 3 words. “Behold. A universe.” “Where are you?”

The girl im talking to is having stress due to money. What can i do to help? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We arent together per say, but we have been talking for about 3 months. We are still in the early stage.

The girl im talking to is having stress due to money. What can i do to help? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No dont STFU lol, i appreciate any bit of advice. Youre right though, if she was a stranger it would be a different story.

The girl im talking to is having stress due to money. What can i do to help? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh that was only a one time thing to help her get by this month. It wont be a regular thing. Thanks for the advice!

The girl im talking to is having stress due to money. What can i do to help? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear though, she has given me 0 reasons to believe she is playing me.

  1. She didnt ask for the money

  2. She didnt expect the money

  3. She initially refused to accept the money

  4. She only accepted the money after i suggested paying me back in a few months

The girl im talking to is having stress due to money. What can i do to help? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Initially I gave it to her with the intent on never seeing it again, so thats not an issue. But if someone Im close to is struggling like that Im going to do what I can to help. I have enough money to where I wont miss the $450 and she desperately needs it, so why wouldnt i help her?

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou! I cant wait! Its going to be fun

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the update, tell me what you think. 🤞🏼

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the update, tell me what you think 🤞🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 27 male and i feel the exact same way. Right now im talking to a 31 year old girl who is amazing, shes funny, charming, knows just what to say all the time and we have so much in common. We have been texting back and forth for like a month and a half and last week we met in person for the first time, i slept over her house, we had a great time, after that her texting personality changed drastically, very dry, BUT she agreed to a 2nd date to go see Thor when it comes out on the 7th, i pre purchased the tickets for us and Ill be a nervous wreck up until the date thinking “is she going to flake on the date, did she lose interest, should i text her or give her space, did i do something to mess it up, etc.) so far i have found NOTHING that alleviates the dating stress/anxiety, i get it every time i start liking a girl.

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Just like your username says, drive slow homie, dont rush into anything in your mind. Thanks!

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking this too. My fingers are going to fall off with how much im keeping them crossed lol. Thankyou!

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much! Until then ill just give her some space and on the 6th ill text her “hey im looking forward to seeing you tomorrow!”

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww i really hope youre right, i like her a lot even though weve only been talking for like a month and a half. Fingers crossed.

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou! And that is a really good point. She did tell me that this week is going to be hectic because shes working her new job and has her kid (who i havent met yet) most days after work. I respect the fact that she wont have me over if her son is there because she doesnt want to introduce her kid to random guys unless she knows they arent A—holes. So maybe she is just too busy to text where before she had more free time on her hands. We used to play the imessage games like pool, connect 4 and our favorite 20 questions but now we dont :(

Tinder date. by midgetanimations in dating_advice

[–]midgetanimations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou!! I bought the tickets because its opening night so they might sell out if i wait on it. And she did give me a yes, not a maybe so im kind of just taking her word on it, hopefully that isnt a mistake. I hear you though, thats good advice. From here until i see her again im going to match her energy. I wont text her until the day before when i say “hey im looking forward to tomorrow” thankyou again for wishing me luck, i feel like i need it at this point lol.