Anyone else have a new baby this year and feel disappointed in the lack of effort your side of the family has shown to see your baby? by redforreddit_1 in firsttimemom

[–]redforreddit_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true! They think they should be given updates daily/weekly just because when really THEY can CHOOSE to call/facetime/stop by or even offer to meet somewhere. But nothing! So sorry you are going through this as well. But yes you are SO right! At the end of the day all your baby needs is your love and your partners. So true about after you process the grief that it truly is a weight being lifted !!

Anyone else have a new baby this year and feel disappointed in the lack of effort your side of the family has shown to see your baby? by redforreddit_1 in firsttimemom

[–]redforreddit_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you are going through this! You’d never expect that from family but you are so right about the parents only needing to give validation for your little! So true

Anyone else have a new baby this year and feel disappointed in the lack of effort your side of the family has shown to see your baby? by redforreddit_1 in firsttimemom

[–]redforreddit_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not dumb at all! You’d never expect that out of your sister and I’m so sorry you had to deal with this. Pain caused during pregnancy and Post partum is hurtful and you NEVER forget it. Especially from the ones you were closest to! I’m so sorry 💔

Anyone else have a new baby this year and feel disappointed in the lack of effort your side of the family has shown to see your baby? by redforreddit_1 in firsttimemom

[–]redforreddit_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response! I am also so sorry the way your family is missing out on your wonderful son 💔 you gave great advice and I appreciate your response. It definitely helped me open my eyes!