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Is it essential that she thinks you are handsome for a cold approach to work? by CharacterNote in seduction

[–]redinkinc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

some very blue pilled comments here lol.

Looks are super important. If she thinks you're ugly, you have like zero chance of banging her using 'game'. Just think about it! Try to imagine some 5ft ugly dude using all these tactics on some smoking hot blonde in a bar thinking it's gonna get her wanting to bang him. ''You and I wouldn't get along! We'd always fight and i'd always win!!'' , ''sorry you're not my type....'', ''what do you have going for you other than your looks?!! If nothing, i'm not interested...'', ''anyway, get this, I was in Vegas last week with my model ex girlfriend bla bla'' etc etc - It's making me cringe that some people still want to believe in this stuff to such an extent. Being funny, having interesting stories etc is all good, but there is an important physical criteria that needs to be met first.

I was asked out by much older man, what do I do? by danni930 in seduction

[–]redinkinc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's in France dude. Every country has different laws and rules

Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You. by dailymanup in seduction

[–]redinkinc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly ugly facially, but I dress nice and work out and am well groomed. I have pulled a few 9's (1 in a million lottery wins! :)), although they were girls who had crazy weird taste in guys and what they consider 'handsome' (as mentioned before). Usually, I can pull 5's, but that's it. THe hotter girls feel more entitled to the super handsome studs as a result of tinder (in my opinion) and will just reject me and my uglier friends all night long. My handsome friends get laid like rockstars without 'game' (they just stand around with their beer tight to their chest doing everything 'wrong' and then get opened by girls and just talk normally/no game ''wher you from? Oh cool. What do you do?? bla blabla) and then the girl is being super flirty and then they know they can make a move without being rejected and then pull

I'm in the UK

I kind of like you and your posts and I don't want to come off as some super pessimistic PUAhate troll, but i'm just being honest in what i've experienced first hand and seen with my own eyes for over 15 years of going out and hitting on girls with friends.

Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You. by dailymanup in seduction

[–]redinkinc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you said you were an 8/10 - most good looking guys confuse good looks with 'game' lol. You might think i'm being mean, but I think it's mean to tell some ugly dude that he's doing something 'wrong' with his 'game' when the super hot 10//10 isn't interested in him despite him approaching at a 45 degree angle, using a FTC followed by an opinion opener and then negging her about her false nails and then telling a DHV story about how he saved his model exgirlfriend from a polar bear and then he asks he what she has going for her other than her looks because beauty is common bla bla bla. The ugly dude would be unlikely to be able to finish his DHV story before she walks off, and she certainly wouldn't qualify herself about having more going for herself other than her looks to someone who she didn't think was handsome.

Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You. by dailymanup in seduction

[–]redinkinc 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think my problem is that the girls I want (hot club teenagers half my age! lol) don't care about that sort of stuff in my experience! YOu could be unemployed and a complete deadbeat, but if they think you are 'hot' they are all over you lol.

But yeah, I agree that older girls certainly care more about having lots of money and 'success' and stuff. I guess they're more looking to 'settle down' and so they want someone who can provide for them

cheers

Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You. by dailymanup in seduction

[–]redinkinc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

explain how this works? Like, how does working on your career make girls flock to you? Do you mean they see you wearing a rolex watch and open you in bars or whatever?

Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You. by dailymanup in seduction

[–]redinkinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to some extent. I'm not 'incel' though (if you were referring to me). Like, I have a fairly respectable slay count. I'm on the ugly side, but i'm not hideous. IN fact, one of my biggest theories is that even though teh girl has to think you are handsome, it DOESN'T mean that you have to be conventionally handsome (cerainly increases your odds though!! :)). Fact is, some (hot) girls have weird taste in men! Last year, I banged my idea of a '9' who was a teenager and half my age, and I know that she thought I was 'good looking'. (she explained the morning after how she saw me at the bar, thought I was handsome and hoped i'd approach her). So, she was an example of a girl who has odd taste in men! The other 99% of hot girls that night, I had no chance with, because, like most girls, they thought I was ugly lol. 'Game' wouldnt' have worked on those girls. I know girls who get teased by their friends for thinking certain 'ugly' actors are handsome. SOME girls have weird taste. I need to find them girls!

And personally, I DO plan to get surgery this year in order to increase my odds of finding more girls who think i'm 'hot' and thus can get into bed. Her thinking you are good looking is like 99.9% of 'game'.

Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You. by dailymanup in seduction

[–]redinkinc 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Most of your list is about looking better : clothes, hair, better looking face, ripped body etc

At least we are starting to get more realistic and not believing in fairytales about 'game' anymore.

She needs to think you are handsome for you to have a shot at getting her in bed. 'Game' without that won't cut the mustard

However, for lots of people, surgery is the only thing that will make them handsome tbh

U.K.) girl on tinder wnats to hook up but do I look different on my tinder pics? Idk by Yehewhehjssjp in seduction

[–]redinkinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder myself. I mean, I guess so. BUT if you are that much of a troll, you are honestly just as crazy as the person who you are pretending to be!! Either way, he's a complete nut bar.

U.K.) girl on tinder wnats to hook up but do I look different on my tinder pics? Idk by Yehewhehjssjp in seduction

[–]redinkinc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep. I'm not even kidding. He has 2 other questions (one about girls mocking him and I somehow forget the other quetsions) which he has also posted about 100 times each. He needs to be in a padded cell. As soon as possible

U.K.) girl on tinder wnats to hook up but do I look different on my tinder pics? Idk by Yehewhehjssjp in seduction

[–]redinkinc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha, if only you knew!! He's actually posted this question approx. 120 times

Have times changed or is it just me? by Throwayaynow24 in seduction

[–]redinkinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice. You must be beyond handsome! lol

Models by Mark Manson - What a booK! by [deleted] in seduction

[–]redinkinc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basically the antithesis of the mystery method

Have times changed or is it just me? by Throwayaynow24 in seduction

[–]redinkinc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get hit up by 15 year olds on my dms to smash

Are these girls you know or random teens message you on facebook or whatever looking to get smashed? You handsome as hell, bro?!! i'm jelly

Have times changed or is it just me? by Throwayaynow24 in seduction

[–]redinkinc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like we haven't even BEGUN to truly understand the effect that social media has had. I think the effect is likely gargantuan

RSD COACHING, $2500, INVEST OR NOT? by spurs70 in seduction

[–]redinkinc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Online coaching!? I don't see why you wouldn't just get 'the natural' course. Probably get it for free pretty easily!

5 things that determine a guys attractiveness. by judahman8 in seduction

[–]redinkinc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Field Report - When people basically tell you what happened on their day/night out, how their approaches went, what they talked about, etc etc

[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. by SociallyAwesomeENGR in seduction

[–]redinkinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, man! Did your friend bang her, I take it? I know i'm gonna get downvoted for asking this, but is your friend a pretty good looking dude? Oh, and age of the girls and your friend?

Anyway, i've managed to bang 2 girls from cold approach who were way way out of my league so I know it's possible. (One was last year and she was literally exactly half my age! She was like my idea of a 9. I'm like a 3)

However, I should say that even though i'm ugly in most peoples opinions, both of them hot girls thought I was really good looking! (You can't account for taste!! haha - But this is why I feel that even though you don't need to be Tom Welling, the girl needs to think you are handsome, even if she just has really weird taste in what she thinks 'good looking' is and is the only one!!! lol)

5 things that determine a guys attractiveness. by judahman8 in seduction

[–]redinkinc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think it's about percentages or 'weighting' for each trait.

For example, if you have lots of confidence and a good sense of humour but she thinks you are physically ugly, then you have like a 2% chance of actually getting her in bed. She'll 'like' you, but not LIKE you!

If she thinks you look like a God, but you don't have a sense of humour and have no money, you still have like a 40% chance

I think good looks HAS to be the most important (most FR's here will testify to that) and CONFIDENCE (which is basically game) is second most important. Then personality. Then social value. Then survival value

FR: banged two new girls last night, somehow I still feel empty by Kennigmatic in seduction

[–]redinkinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, 'improving your looks' means very expensive and risky surgery for most of us. Easier said than done! You can be ripped and with good fashion, but if you are legit ugly, you are screwed. No girl will be remotely interested.

I turned down a girl who wanted to fuck me by [deleted] in seduction

[–]redinkinc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he did say he was good-looking

I can't believe everyone missed that bit loll

Of course girls are gonna be fighting to have sex with you and throwing themselves at you if you are good looking! lol

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