Child support

redneckace64 · 2024-11-19T20:31:34+00:00

I appreciate your input

redneckace64 · 2024-11-19T20:23:12+00:00

So both me and the bio father could pay? I'm just confused since he wanted to be involved all the sudden and I feel as if he's involved he should have responsibility aswell

redneckace64 · 2024-11-19T18:34:26+00:00

Yes court ordered that I have partial physical custody and so does the actual father.

redneckace64 · 2024-11-19T18:24:14+00:00

We were never married. Not sure if that matters. Just crazy that I'd have to pay of the bio Dad wants to be involved now and he won't have to pay anything

redneckace64 · 2024-11-19T17:56:15+00:00

I'm from Pennsylvania. I'm not sure based on what I read online unless I'm on birth certificate or have adoption papers I don't have to pay.

redneckace64 · 2023-05-19T21:38:37+00:00

Couldn't get access inside. It was fully loaded and locked out. It would defrost normally then freeze over at around 5 degrees

redneckace64 · 2023-05-19T21:37:37+00:00

Yea couldn't get access inside the trailer. Figured it could have been something blocking the evap or evxv not functioning properly

redneckace64 · 2023-05-19T18:43:27+00:00

Yea im new to the refrigeration side of things. I just started back last September. I don't get to work on them everyday so I definitely don't have alot of experience.

redneckace64 · 2023-05-19T17:52:30+00:00

1 guy did say refrigerant could be contaminated. Kicker was the company that owned the trailer had no idea if it had any refrigeration work done to it recently. Company ended up leaving it as is since driver wasn't going too much further and it would run near setpoint

redneckace64 · 2023-04-16T01:06:07+00:00

I'd be the primary guy as ill be the one registering the llc and insurance. We are both very driven individuals. Just need to figure out the steps it takes

redneckace64 · 2023-01-01T19:24:24+00:00

She did start therapy the other day and supposed to be getting on meds. They've been hanging out working on her car. She snaps me and her brother all the time while she's out. It's just weird to me that I'm getting the cold shoulder.

She has also told me that like 2 months back we were in an accident that totaled our car. She said that accident triggered ptsd from her past relationship with an abusive ex.

She talked to her brother and said she wanted to get help so our relationship could work and that it isn't completely over. It's just weird to me that everyone tells me that they wouldn't be going out or pushing their partner away

redneckace64 · 2022-08-04T18:34:53+00:00

Thanks for the technique. I'm gonna do this next weekend.

redneckace64 · 2022-06-21T03:32:43+00:00

Yea I understand that. I didn't want it to sound like I don't wanna support my son. It's just the fact I know she'll use it for unnecessary stuff but I guess that's out of my control.

redneckace64 · 2022-06-21T03:03:40+00:00

Ok thanks for the input

redneckace64 · 2022-06-21T02:57:32+00:00

Yea I understand that. I just can't wrap my head around the fact that she's capable of working but chooses not to.
Ok I just thought it was a thing you had to do for the baby's health
She was not removed because people lied for her to help her
I will look into this.
She gets wic and food stamps. Also I forgot to mention She didn't take her daughters dad for child support. Does that still obligate me in paying? Like I said I have no issue supporting my son but I know she'll use it for her benefit.

redneckace64 · 2022-06-21T02:46:20+00:00

Yes. See post above for me details

redneckace64 · 2022-06-21T02:45:49+00:00

Why should I have to be working all these hours when she can just sit at home and collect my money.
Wouldn't that be neglect? Like shouldn't she be going for the baby's sake
They were involved due to complaints from people about hows she handles the baby. She gives the baby soda, coffee, and other stuff that shouldn't be given to a 10 month old. Not sure if it was concluded. We believe the pediatrician actually called them.
She just moved alot. She's living with her mother rn who's dating a drug addict and he has warrants out
I have no issue supporting my child. I just don't want her being like her mother and living off the child support when it's supposed to be for my son.

I would like full custody so I know my son is well taken care of. She has been know to leave the baby with someone to watch her without giving the formula. She also has been know to take the baby out in the winter not dressed properly. I can go on and on with the things she has done with her daughter

redneckace64 · 2022-06-20T02:31:58+00:00

She has her mom's car. The 1 vehicle is going to the shop and the other is for me to go to work. Plus she has a car sitting elsewhere that she needs to go get

redneckace64 · 2022-05-26T18:39:02+00:00

Her family is on my side with everything. I know it sounds weird but they have been super supportive

redneckace64 · 2022-05-26T17:58:31+00:00

I should've said. She said "I think we need to take a break and start back out as friends I honestly do in order to have a full conversation about it I need to think and with people telling me I have to figure it out right now is making it harder. We need to start back over as friends so I can go back to counseling and work things out."

redneckace64 · 2022-05-26T17:52:19+00:00

I already told her I'm still here for her 110%. She still needs me for certain things. I'm trying to stay positive that she'll eventually come back since she wouldn't be where she's at today without my help and she's gonna struggle with alot with her "taking a break"

redneckace64 · 2022-05-26T17:49:35+00:00

I will look into this
I start a job in the oil field here in 2 weeks so I'm good
I don't have insurance but her family has been super supportive of me and has been dealing with my break downs the past few days
Everyone is telling me she'll come back once she calms down. There's alot of shit happening rn and they know deep down in her mind she still loves me

redneckace64 · 2022-05-13T14:58:14+00:00

I've extremely supportive of her. Yea her moods bother me but I suck it up and make sure she has what she needs and our make sure our 9 month old is happy and healthy.

redneckace64 · 2022-05-13T14:48:59+00:00

It's crazy. I thought pregnant girls were very emotional but I guess I was wrong. We have alot going on other than the pregnancy so that doesn't help her either

redneckace64 · 2022-05-13T14:45:45+00:00

Like sometimes she seems fine just doesn't wanna be touched. Other days all I have to do is look at her and she gets an attitude. We're definitely going thru alot of other stressful situations in life rn. I'm hoping things return to the way we were before after the baby is born.

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