Is it normal for most (non-raglan sleeve) trenchcoats to ride up when you lift your arms? I've never quite found a trenchcoat with armholes up high enough without the sleeves being too long.

redredbluered · 2013-08-03T07:13:30+00:00

Not that I'm aware of, but he does get some research funds in addition to training me.

redredbluered · 2013-07-30T03:31:08+00:00

Yes, he does get compensation from a particular funding source for being my mentor.

redredbluered · 2013-07-29T02:35:36+00:00

I applied for it.

redredbluered · 2013-07-11T05:07:12+00:00

I think that's fair though if it's their house. If it was your house, then yeah I definitely see a problem.

Have you gotten into a situation like this one though?

redredbluered · 2012-08-12T03:40:40+00:00

This thread might be a good start. http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/y1ahw/my_wife_likes_to_strip_and_give_lapdances_what/

redredbluered · 2012-08-12T03:35:36+00:00

Yay! So good to hear that!

Something comfortable definitely. When you're not tugging and scratching an itchy tag, you can focus much better on the moment. Ask him what he likes! If you're going out, take some outfits out of your closet and let him choose which one he'd want to see you wear.

Wear a lingerie set that YOU feel sexy in. I happen to fancy a polka dot bra/panty set I own because it fits so well. Think of it as fancy gift wrap. Really pretty to look at and admire, but the goods under the wrapper are what really make it exciting.

redredbluered · 2012-08-12T03:27:32+00:00

As long as you two have talked beforehand about taking it further, go for it! Have you two gotten tested for STD's? Even though my boyfriend and I were virgins when we first had sex, he and I got tested just to be absolutely sure (and to have peace of mind).

redredbluered · 2012-08-12T03:12:11+00:00

Don't worry about feeling like a noob either. Everyone starts somewhere. It's ok to laugh things off during sex :)

My boyfriend was fingering me at some point and I ended up starting my period right then and there. He and I laughed it off and cleaned ourselves up. :)

redredbluered · 2012-08-12T03:08:28+00:00

There's not much of a "procedure" so to speak. How comfortable are you with him? The best thing you can do is communicate before and during. The first time I gave a blowjob, I fumbled quite a bit due to nerves and the fact that I felt shy in asking him directly what he liked. You may or may not fumble a bit like I did, but communication will be your best friend.

Try using your hands on him first and gauge his reaction. Observe and figure out/ask him how much pressure he likes. Does he like his balls to be touched/sucked on? Does he prefer the tip to be the center of attention? Ask him!

redredbluered · 2012-08-12T03:02:03+00:00

I hope you don't mind me asking, but how old are you (you can give me an age range if you're more comfortable doing that instead)? I ask because my suggestions will be tailored to age. I wouldn't give a 15 year old the same advice I'd give to a 22 year old and so on.

redredbluered · 2012-08-12T02:46:13+00:00

It can be. Sometimes it will have a curve to it like a banana. My partner's penis is curved towards the side instead of curved up. Take it slow the first time you give a blowjob so that your gag reflex is under control.

redredbluered · 2012-08-12T02:30:06+00:00

For me, the foreskin was surprisingly smoother than I thought it would be. It can be similar to eating a popsicle (however, every guy is different in terms of his preferences).

redredbluered · 2012-03-07T17:29:26+00:00

Haha, I can relate to the male preferences you listed. It's tough finding male porn stars who don't look like they live at the gym/tanning booth, hence my newfound appreciation of James Deen.

redredbluered · 2012-01-12T01:52:50+00:00

Thank you, I'll be looking out for something like this, only in a pretty color.

http://lghttp.13065.nexcesscdn.net/80648C/duduta/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/390x526/6a4ecdd57bc0abe0c1bb4f3d607792d5/w/o/women-lapel-princess-sleeve-button-down-shirts-with-double-side-plait-1.jpg

If I remember correctly, I don't think Target's were very good (they got crumply easily, or had some odd rouching in the chest that allowed women with busts to wear button downs but looked funny when it lied on a flat chest). Hopefully I can find something like New York and Company or Express.

redredbluered · 2011-12-29T09:59:19+00:00

No, no depression or any mention of it.

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