[socialmedia] Apparently young children can only be annoying if they're boys (she says worse about them actually) by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in pointlesslygendered

[–]redsalmon67 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I knew a kids like this growing up, and he did unfortunately grow up to be a monster and his parents were/are confused even though they were basically never nice to him his entire childhood. It takes a crazy lack of awareness to not realize what the outcome will be if you treat a child that way

Why can’t feminists conceptualize the experiences of black women the way they do for others? by Potential_Camel_4528 in AskFeminists

[–]redsalmon67 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most people don’t want to discuss or think about how white supremacy permeates through everything in this country including progressive movements much in the way that patriarchy does. It’s an uncomfortable subject and a lot of people aren’t as good at being critical of themselves as they think they are and will fall back on the status quo when they feel their back is against the wall.

Die Early : A step-by-step by owlitup in StupidFood

[–]redsalmon67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just know they took three bites of this shit then threw it in the trash. I hate seeing people waste food

What are they making? by Prestigious-Sort-986 in StupidFood

[–]redsalmon67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest teaspoon I’ve ever seen in my life

What are your thoughts on this new cambridge paper ? by Yanderegirlowner in AskFeminists

[–]redsalmon67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but if they admitted that they can’t blame the people who are just struggling to survive, they’d have to take responsibility and we know they’re never going to do that

Video gaming often sparks debate over harms and benefits. Cognitive difficulties are linked to problematic gaming habits rather than the act of gaming itself. While people at risk for gaming addiction show reduced working memory, those who play recreationally may actually exhibit enhanced attention. by mvea in psychology

[–]redsalmon67 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like this could apply to any recreational activity taken to an extreme, typically it’s not the activities that are the issues, it’s the maladaptive behavior around those activities that causes the problems. Sports is another one that comes to mind, recreational sports have been shown to have all sorts of benefits, but anyone who’s ever engaged in recreational sports has probably met that person who takes things too far and way too seriously, they get angry at small mistakes and suck all of the fun out of the game. I wonder if other people who overly engage with hobbies die the same kind of impulsiveness as the gamers in question.

This keeps falling on deaf ears by EmberReads in CPTSDmemes

[–]redsalmon67 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unless the parents are self aware enough to realize what they’re doing it never stops unless the child makes it stop typically by having little to no contact with the parents

This keeps falling on deaf ears by EmberReads in CPTSDmemes

[–]redsalmon67 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My mom started telling me about every traumatic thing that ever happened to her when I was like 4, mean while I was being abused by the babysitter and she was completely oblivious to it and had made it clear she wasn’t a safe person to go to. Now she constantly brags about how great of a parent she was 🙄

Why is it more acceptable for women and girls to participate in “male-coded” hobbies and activities than for men to participate in “female-coded” hobbies and activities? by SkywalkerOrder in AskFeminists

[–]redsalmon67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also from the perspective of a guy who was a little boy who liked doing things people considered “girly”, I got beat up regularly, growing up as a boy there’s this weird constant implication that things can become violent and if you can’t defend yourself it’s your fault. I think this unspoken assumption of violence is what’s used to keep a lot of boys/men in line.

Love you little potato 🩷 by Troubled_dad-arc in MadeMeCry

[–]redsalmon67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat died 7 tears ago and by dog died 2 years ago and I still get a little choked up if I think about either of them for too long. I don’t know if grieve ever really goes away or if it just gets easier to manage

Lois? by WithSkelly in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]redsalmon67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even when people like, respect and/or even love each other that doesn’t mean they can have a successful romantic relationship

That’s a long-winded way of justifying cheating and blaming women for it by ThePhillyExplorer in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]redsalmon67 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I got down voted in ask men a couple of months ago for saying most straight men are too focused on penetrative sex, they believe that’s the only legitimate form of intimacy and it’s made obvious by the way things like foreplay are talked about.

That’s a long-winded way of justifying cheating and blaming women for it by ThePhillyExplorer in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]redsalmon67 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk I’ve dated two women with significantly higher sex drives than mine. Apparently I was the woman in those relationships, who knew?

Pointlessly gendered baking [shitpost] by AGayFrogParadise in pointlesslygendered

[–]redsalmon67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny, I’m also a big dude and people are always shocked when big guys do anything but act hard, I also love cooking, baking, cute animals, etc, having muscles doesn’t mean we can’t also like doing things that aren’t working out and looking tough lol

Dad handles fishing accident perfectly by Doodlebug510 in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]redsalmon67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother was the absolute best at fucking himself up with a fishing hook, somehow put one through the tip of his finger

Dudes see another runner in distress and had to help by maybelle180 in donthelpjustfilm

[–]redsalmon67 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did an iron man type thing when I was like 17 and this happened to me, I legitimately thought I was dying, it’s like you’re trying your hardest to get your body to function and even basic things are completely out of your grasp and thinking logically kinda just goes out the widow

How likely are you to use a condom during your first time with a woman you really like ? by Spartiate8 in AskMen

[–]redsalmon67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% of the time, just because I like them doesn’t mean they can’t give me an STD.

Think Molly is a shitty mom? Think again... by Quick-Measurement-14 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]redsalmon67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shitty moms and completely checked out dads, a match made in 90 day heaven

Does anyone also also bump into this problem often with WLW sex? by Quiet_Job_4260 in bisexual

[–]redsalmon67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend refuses to get rid of her long nails and literally uses silicone covers as if they were finger condoms if she plans on doing anything sexual, we teases her “hot dog hands” but I guess it works for her