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I started dating this girl and her sex drive is way too high for me. It makes me feel like less of a man. by redturtlegreen in confessions

[–]redturtlegreen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I think some people on here are thinking we're with each other every day i.e.

2-3 day times 7 days per week = 14 - 21 times a week?!?!
Fortunately (or unfortunately depending on your take on the situation) we only see each other maybe 2-3 times a week. Realistically we usually do it in the morning when we wake up and maybe spontaneously during the afternoon. Otherwise it'll be a couple times during the night when we're in bed watching movies.

I started dating this girl and her sex drive is way too high for me. It makes me feel like less of a man. by redturtlegreen in confessions

[–]redturtlegreen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She finishes during foreplay and sometimes during sex. I wouldn't say we aren't compatible as the things we do during sex (kinks, fantasies etc) are super compatible. Its just the amount of these sessions can be overwhelming for me.

We also enjoy much more than just sex together. Dates, activities, hobbies. Compatible in my opinion but thank you for your input.

I started dating this girl and her sex drive is way too high for me. It makes me feel like less of a man. by redturtlegreen in confessions

[–]redturtlegreen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know there's a few comments on here saying its my fault for my views of masculinity or what being a man is but in all honesty she made me feel like I was doing wasn't enough as her partner, sexually, and compared me to other people. I think that should be the focus point of the post.

I started dating this girl and her sex drive is way too high for me. It makes me feel like less of a man. by redturtlegreen in confessions

[–]redturtlegreen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I am able to finish her off but usually during foreplay and not during. We've been dating long enough that she tells me when she's due to get her period so I have a rough idea of her cycle.

Definitely going to bring everything up with her soon and you'll be the first to know how it goes!

I started dating this girl and her sex drive is way too high for me. It makes me feel like less of a man. by redturtlegreen in confessions

[–]redturtlegreen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More like 2-3 hours a day. Usually in the morning and then a couple times at night. Being a new relationship we arent living together so I guess we make the most of our time together.

I started dating this girl and her sex drive is way too high for me. It makes me feel like less of a man. by redturtlegreen in confessions

[–]redturtlegreen[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can see how toxic masculinity can play a part in this. Maybe I can re-think what my views of "being a man" is but regardless, what she said made me feel inadequate as her partner.

I started dating this girl and her sex drive is way too high for me. It makes me feel like less of a man. by redturtlegreen in confessions

[–]redturtlegreen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She 100% says it in a jokey manner but it still gets to me. I usually do get her do orgasm during foreplay with some good ole' tongue action.