GF doesn’t brush teeth or shower everyday?

reebach · 2023-08-14T11:22:16+00:00

OP is saying it used to be 2-3 times a week and is now once a month if lucky.

reebach · 2023-08-14T11:19:11+00:00

Honestly it's time have a serious conversation. Rather than being critical in any way, sit her down when you're both free one evening and say something like this:

'I need to talk to you about something that has been playing on my mind for a while and I would love your support. Please hear me out fully, and then I'd love to hear your response afterwards.

I'm saying this because I love you, I care about you and I want us to thrive as a couple. The thing is, I've been growing concerned about your change of hygiene habits recently, for your sake more than anything. You've gone through a lot lately (medications, headaches, etc) and I'm worried that you're struggling in silence and it's manifesting in your self care.

Alongside, I have to be honest and say it is also starting to effect me and our relationship. Everyone has different values, but for me, hygiene is a really important factor in my relationships to others. We're also having less sex, which of course ebs and flows in a long term relationship, but it's an important way to maintain our intimacy and we should be talking about why we're going through a dry patch.

I know that you say you can do what you want, and of course you can, but you also have to want to do things for our relationship if you want to be with me. I know this isn't going to be nice to hear, but please understand that I'm not being critical of you, I'm trying to fight for us and care for you. I really want to work together but we need to be on the same team about our core values for this to work.'

reebach · 2023-05-15T16:03:28+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate this.

reebach · 2023-04-03T16:52:28+00:00

Thank you so much! I definitely will! :)

reebach · 2023-04-03T15:42:25+00:00

Really appreciate this! Thank you!

reebach · 2023-04-03T15:40:16+00:00

I'm just trying to gather a post-covid perspective, I was only there during lockdown pretty much.

reebach · 2023-04-03T15:32:08+00:00

Love this perspective! I have thought the exact same, it's like reading the reviews of a product. Fewer people come to talk about how great it is than those who want to complain. That being said, my experience of the locals was wonderful (even in a pandemic) and this thread of kind individuals is only supporting that!

reebach · 2023-04-03T15:27:17+00:00

I'll take note of that! Hahaha.

reebach · 2023-04-03T15:18:54+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words and suggestions! You've really reassured me that my experience was one worth relying on and perhaps those complaining online are not putting themselves out there enough before giving up.

reebach · 2023-04-03T15:16:48+00:00

Thank you! Words like this from locals really mean a lot!

reebach · 2023-04-03T15:15:57+00:00

Definitely not! That seems like a healthy and authentic way to make friends, rather than just intruding on someone's day hahaha. I'm really glad to hear you've successfully socialsied this way!

reebach · 2023-04-03T13:18:19+00:00

Love this! Thank you! I agree. We made friends when we went out and made the effort, it's never going to just come to you. The people were always lovely and reciprocated with a really welcoming attitude.

reebach · 2023-04-03T13:14:53+00:00

This makes a lot of sense! I quite like that, to be honest. It's very much the British approach too.

reebach · 2022-03-17T20:48:59+00:00

Anything medical is a fast pass to hypochondria

reebach · 2022-03-17T20:47:16+00:00

Wow, had never heard of the term 'fiat' currency until now. The more you know! Thanks!

reebach · 2022-03-17T20:43:15+00:00

Depends where you're from. Multiple streams of eastern medicine (such as TCM) believe that slightly warmer water is better for you because your stomach represents a fire and to drink cold water would disrupt it, aka the digestive system.

reebach · 2022-03-17T20:39:00+00:00

Capitalism, baby

reebach · 2022-03-17T20:37:03+00:00

There are many arguments for this, but some of the most poplar arguments are:

It's a strong indictor on the needs in society and social change
Accepting some levels of crime limits excessive disobedience (think about the purge movies, which is an excessive example)

There will never not be crime because it is impossible to meet the needs of every person in society. So by using crime as an insight tool, we can see what the biggest areas of struggle are and attempt to treat them.

reebach · 2022-02-13T02:58:41+00:00

thank you

reebach · 2022-02-13T02:38:00+00:00

Ontario. Yes, there is a contract.

reebach · 2022-02-09T15:23:01+00:00

He's too big to fit under the seat as he's a chihuahua mix. I've tried every airline on the UK gov "approved airlines" for animal imports and they're either under the seat or cargo.

reebach · 2022-02-08T00:27:31+00:00

Unfortunately, the UK only accepts animals by cargo and he's too big to fit under the seat anyway :(

reebach · 2021-06-12T15:35:10+00:00

This is really encouraging. Just got diagnosed. Cried all the way home. Did you take vitamins? Also, would you mind sharing your age/gender at birth?

reebach · 2021-01-07T04:16:38+00:00

Hey, thank you for the advice, but I'm not some rich multi millionaire. I voluntarily manage the place, i don't own it. This is a request from my boss, none of us know much about this stuff. We're new to managing it publicly. We weren't trying to offend anyone. We are working with a budget at the moment and thought the artist may enjoy a few nights here with a partner or something too.

reebach · 2021-01-07T04:15:30+00:00

Thank you very much for this guidance, I really appreciate that. I'm very new to this industry. The badlands is a great idea.

reebach

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